-- Posted by lwfan2008 at 4:48 pm on Nov. 22, 2008 we met last year. we went together and all, but since i got kinda upset that he didn't do anything for my birthday, he dumped me. i asked him why and he said cause i don't give him enough space and that i call too much, and that we argue too much, and that my standards are too high. then he says we can try it again and we did, we got into an argument and he dumped me again. i asked him why he breakup with me, and he said that it's because i don't call enough and i don't see him enough. then we got back together and broke up again, and he says that it's cause he isn't a permanent person...... that is where i start to get confused. then he said that me and his relationship is like tofu... (no flavor) then he asked to get with me again, and i was dumb enough to say yes, because i find him talking to other girls online trying to meet up with them and he said that he has no girlfriend and that if he did then they are not important. so i broke it off with him and told him that he has hurt me denying that he has ever had a girlfriend, let alone have one one... all he said was that he wasn't trying to hurt me and that he was not ready to be in a relationship and that he didn't know that until we got back together, then he springs this "i wanted to have a trial period" before officially declaring ourselves bullcrap. thing is i'm trying to figure out is: 1. why would he do me like that? 2. do you think he keeps changing the rules in the relationship and if so, then why? i had other questions but i cannot remember them right now... -- Posted by Nephthys6 at 4:50 pm on Nov. 22, 2008 He sucks. Don't ever get back with him. -- Posted by blufindr at 4:50 pm on Nov. 22, 2008 I'm thinking he wants sex/is jerking you around. -- Posted by lwfan2008 at 4:51 pm on Nov. 22, 2008 oh i forgot. he also uses his "ailments" as an excuse to keep dumping me too. -- Posted by lwfan2008 at 4:52 pm on Nov. 22, 2008 Quote: from Nephthys6 at 4:50 pm on Nov. 22, 2008 He sucks. Don't ever get back with him. don't worry. i won't. that's why i finally had the power to break up with him instead of him breaking up with me like he did the other 3 times.