-- Posted by Anonymous at 5:07 pm on Nov. 22, 2008 my boyfriend who is also one of my best friends is dealing with a lot of stuff right now.   but he kinda   tells me and he kinda doesn't, i think he is cutting himself now but he told   me he doesn'twant to drop   all of his problems on me since he knows I'm   dealing with my own stuff to. But i really just want both of us to be able to talk about it all. I care about him and i just want to help. How do I let him know this? And i mean more than just saying it. I want him to know i mean it. -- Posted by crushdarling at 5:08 pm on Nov. 22, 2008 Tell him, for starters. -- Posted by shibby2 at 5:08 pm on Nov. 22, 2008 you go first and tell him whats going on with you -- Posted by xobrinygirlxo at 5:19 pm on Nov. 22, 2008 Quote: from crushdarling at 5:08 pm on Nov. 22, 2008 Tell him, for starters. thats a good idea