-- Posted by greenfrog04 at 8:49 am on Nov. 24, 2008 so i dated this guy who intentionally blacked out everytime we would drink. at first he would kind of curse me out then he would become really  affectionate. as our relationship progressed he only became verbally abusive. he would tell me he wanted to go have sex with other girls. that im the uglier on in the relationship. blahblahblah. we would always get into fights while he was still drunk or high. the next morning he would always be mad at me for being mad at him. he said his behavior wasnt his fault because he was "blacked out." he never remembered the things he said/ did. also everytime he would drink he would yell at me over the fact that we hadnt had sex yet. i mean we eventually did but up until that point he would yell at me. sober him would always tell me how he thinks he got screwed over in life because he was so good looking and he should have gotten lots of ass. but unfortunately he was a 23 year old virgin. i dont know how this was my fault but he blamed me for this as well. he never had any female friends and he said the only reason he would ever have a female friend is if he wanted to sleep with her. do you think hes just a  typical guy or is there more to this. he resents the catholic church a lot. he resents his mother for sending him to sunday school. he resents women quite a bit. part of me always felt like maybe he was molested when he was younger or something. i dont know -- Posted by 007bondgirl08 at 8:51 am on Nov. 24, 2008 neither do i, u ok though? -- Posted by greenfrog04 at 8:52 am on Nov. 24, 2008 yep. -- Posted by teremi45 at 8:53 am on Nov. 24, 2008 hes not a typical guy.  hes an asshole. -- Posted by playerboy at 9:01 am on Nov. 24, 2008 ditch the motherfucker get a new guy -- Posted by protectivesister at 9:04 am on Nov. 24, 2008 well maybe something did happen to him that is causeing this  behaveor when he was young  you should ask him about it and if he really loves u he wouldn't be abuse stay with him and try to understand  what he is going through if u understand eachother thing go smoother -- Posted by protectivesister at 9:08 am on Nov. 24, 2008 but i stilll leave him -- Posted by MourningAir at 2:40 pm on Nov. 24, 2008 projecting his personal problems on you. tell the dude to get some counseling ffs.