-- Posted by misssmadejavuu at 11:55 am on Nov. 26, 2008 I feel so terrible right now, I called my boyfriend and told him that I had it. And he wasn't to happy he said "I'll call you later" and hung up on me. I either got it from him, or got it from my most recent ex, because all of the other people I slept with between them we used condoms.   Should I tell my ex that he should go get checked out? I know my boyfriend should go get checked out. Please don't tell me that I am a whore, or I deserved to get this. I feel bad enough already. -- Posted by Praise the Lard at 11:56 am on Nov. 26, 2008 Can't you get that shit non sexually? -- Posted by honeybee3333 at 11:56 am on Nov. 26, 2008 Quote: from misssmadejavuu at 11:55 am on Nov. 26, 2008 Please don't tell me that I am a whore, or I deserved to get this. I feel bad enough already. ok i wont -- Posted by Medevac at 11:56 am on Nov. 26, 2008 i had it too it's not really a big deal. i didnt even bother to tell past sexual partners -- Posted by Rollo Tomasi at 11:56 am on Nov. 26, 2008 tell everyone you've had unprotected sex with to get checked. that is all. -- Posted by jackal 13 at 11:57 am on Nov. 26, 2008 You can get Chlamydia whether or not you have a condom. STUPID!!!!!!!!! -- Posted by misssmadejavuu at 11:57 am on Nov. 26, 2008 Quote: from Praise the Lard at 11:56 am on Nov. 26, 2008 Can't you get that shit non sexually? I don't think so. I'm not sure though. -- Posted by Ftkatyowser at 11:57 am on Nov. 26, 2008 Yes, defiantly both of them should get tested.  And look on the bright side, Chlamydia is treatable with antibiotics. -- Posted by Breanza at 11:57 am on Nov. 26, 2008 that sucks, tell the ex to check or maybe he gave it to you not knowing he had it -- Posted by danielle elizabeth at 11:57 am on Nov. 26, 2008 tell anyone you have had physical contact in the genital areas with...they all could have it. It would be wise to tell all of them and...your not a whore...dont let anyone tell you that. -- Posted by Innuendo Girl at 11:57 am on Nov. 26, 2008 Call everybody you've slept with and try to track down the source. Accidents happen. It sucks, but at least you got one of the curable ones. -- Posted by NeedForSpeed at 11:57 am on Nov. 26, 2008 you have to tell your ex ffs. Wake up call though - im booking my test next week. -- Posted by abbigayle303 at 11:58 am on Nov. 26, 2008 i'm sorry to hear about ur situationbut i think it would be great if u tell ur ex so he could b tested and does't give it to anyone else. -- Posted by misssmadejavuu at 11:58 am on Nov. 26, 2008 Quote: from Medevac at 11:56 am on Nov. 26, 2008 i had it too it's not really a big deal. i didnt even bother to tell past sexual partners Well I didn't have any symptoms, so I could've had it for a while. Or my boyfriend could've given it to me. I feel bad, because he could have it on his dick, and in his mouth because he has given me oral. I'm afraid he will break up with me, we haven't even been dating a month yet. -- Posted by Just Waiting Here at 11:59 am on Nov. 26, 2008 Hey, at least Chlamydia is curable :).  Try not to stress about it... things happen, and even if you used a condom, there is a chance you could have gotten the STD from ANY of those people. I would let them know.  Again, it IS curable, and you should mention that to them.  :). -- Posted by NikkiMikki at 11:59 am on Nov. 26, 2008 Yeah, you should tell him/them. Sorry to hear that. -- Posted by Quantumleaper at 11:59 am on Nov. 26, 2008 you got it from me....im sorry. -- Posted by switchfoott052 at 12:00 pm on Nov. 26, 2008 tell ur ex otherwise if he has it he'll be spreading it. make sure ur ex tells all the girls he's been with too if he turns out positive -- Posted by sadnessness at 12:01 pm on Nov. 26, 2008 tell your ex defo. and anyone else that you have had sexual contact with -- Posted by FurryPanther at 12:01 pm on Nov. 26, 2008 Quote: from Praise the Lard at 12:56 pm on Nov. 26, 2008 Can't you get that shit non sexually? It's a urethral infection. I suppose it's remotely possible, but only in freak chance. Chlamydia is curable through antibiotics, so don't worry overmuch. Get him checked too, you both do an antibiotic run, and it's gone. No biggie. FP -- Posted by misssmadejavuu at 12:06 pm on Nov. 26, 2008 Quote: from FurryPanther at 12:01 pm on Nov. 26, 2008 Quote: from Praise the Lard at 12:56 pm on Nov. 26, 2008 Can't you get that shit non sexually? It's a urethral infection. I suppose it's remotely possible, but only in freak chance. Chlamydia is curable through antibiotics, so don't worry overmuch. Get him checked too, you both do an antibiotic run, and it's gone. No biggie. FP Thank you, I just feel disgusting. And I want to know where I got it from. And I'm afraid he will break up with me, but if he does. It means it wasn't worth it. -- Posted by FurryPanther at 12:14 pm on Nov. 26, 2008 Quote: from misssmadejavuu at 1:06 pm on Nov. 26, 2008 Quote: from FurryPanther at 12:01 pm on Nov. 26, 2008 Quote: from Praise the Lard at 12:56 pm on Nov. 26, 2008 Can't you get that shit non sexually?    It's a urethral infection. I suppose it's remotely possible, but only in freak chance.    Chlamydia is curable through antibiotics, so don't worry overmuch. Get him checked too, you both do an antibiotic run, and it's gone. No biggie.    FP Thank you, I just feel disgusting. And I want to know where I got it from. And I'm afraid he will break up with me, but if he does. It means it wasn't worth it. I understand entirely, though I haven't personally been there. You didn't know, but you're being up front, honest, and dealing with it. There's no shame here, and no reason for him to be angry. FP -- Posted by NikkiInkz at 12:15 pm on Nov. 26, 2008 Yes, you must tell your ex. You don't deserve it, you practised safe sex and probably had reasons for not doing so with the other two. ] Definitely tell your recent ex. He needs to be checked. You current boyfriend os probably worried that he has it, so give him time, he needs it. I hope things work out for you -- Posted by addicted to girls at 11:22 pm on Nov. 26, 2008 bummer -- Posted by MindFreak20 at 2:13 am on Nov. 28, 2008 What have we learned? Random sex with random people=bad. At least you learned your lesson. The hard way.. -- Posted by misssmadejavuu at 2:15 am on Nov. 28, 2008 Quote: from MindFreak20 at 2:13 am on Nov. 28, 2008 What have we learned? Random sex with random people=bad. At least you learned your lesson. The hard way.. Funny because I didn't have random sex with random people. I had sex with people I knew, and they were people that I trusted. -- Posted by MindFreak20 at 2:36 am on Nov. 28, 2008 Quote: from misssmadejavuu at 2:15 am on Nov. 28, 2008 Quote: from MindFreak20 at 2:13 am on Nov. 28, 2008 What have we learned?    Random sex with random people=bad.    At least you learned your lesson.    The hard way..   Funny because I didn't have random sex with random people. I had sex with people I knew, and they were people that I trusted. And just look at where that got you.