-- Posted by DaffySpaffy at 7:12 pm on Nov. 26, 2008 Alright long story short me and my friend thats a really good friend of mine (thats a girl) made a deal awhile back last year that if we didnt have dates we'll go togeter for prom, and that was cool because i kinda alittle bit like her like that. Well a month ago a friend of hers, which is also a friend of mine that i talk to but dun really like~like like that kinda invited herself in that now im both? Its kinda sketchy on the details i just got a text saying she reserves me also im kinda like wow wtf...? I really dont like her more than a friend. but she is a cool person. I need help on kinda rejecting her but guys this is when it gets tricky that i need help with the most. As if confronting her wasn't that bad enogh, there's a "landmine" i can step on if im not careful. You see the girl who i dont really like more than a friend appearance wise isn't what well to my liking. shes kinda big and not too be shallow but i don't feel a spark on her personality than i do with the other friend that i actually do kinda like. Now its starting to become ackward to the friend that i dont like much, and shes starting to call me partner and all, but honestly i dont really wanna go to the prom with her. I'm a nice guy but its not something that I really want to do, and its gonna be bad if i go along with it out of pity, which i dont want to do. But then again I got the coldstone hard truth which will hurt just as bad to her. Shes kinda ruining it too, and if im not careful i can get into a dirty mess by that girl's 3 bestfriends who are also girls and will chew me out before i can even explain myself. Help? For TLDR (Too Long Didn't Read): Need help / advice on rejecting a girl that "reserves" me for a prom date because i dont really like her like that but her appearance isn't the greatest and that can end up to other things i dont want to lead her on and i dont really want to do this. -- Posted by DaffySpaffy at 7:18 pm on Nov. 26, 2008 Oh come on people!! anything?!? -- Posted by trinity fosho at 7:18 pm on Nov. 26, 2008 Isn't prom in like, Spring? Why make all these plans MONTHS before? -- Posted by DaffySpaffy at 7:20 pm on Nov. 26, 2008 because shes creeping me out like now!! lol read it carefully IM not making the plans, she just getting into it.. -- Posted by ScandalousWench at 12:10 am on Nov. 27, 2008 So let me see if I have this right. One friend, the girl you like said you two should go to prom together if you don't have dates. Another friend, whom your not interested in asked if you might like to go with her? Why don't you just ask friend one if you too can go together now? I mean it sounds like neither of you has a date yet. Why don't you just say to both girls "I had gotten used to the idea of going to prom with (girl one) I think it's really the way I would have the best time." whether girl one wants to go with you or not you should tell girl two you don't want to go with her, and Apologise because its the nice thing to do. -- Posted by DaffySpaffy at 8:32 pm on Nov. 29, 2008 ah ok thanks! friend 2 kinda invited herself in :\ but ill give it a shot