-- Posted by CocaColalicious at 1:24 pm on Nov. 29, 2008 Okay so growing up i have been super spoiled and always needed attention from EVERYONE.Eventually this followed me through my life.I do things not knowing its for attention until people  tell me and i always need and want and never give ..im very selfish.These traits have distroyed my past relationships.I have very low self-esteem aswell.I dont understand myself..I also crave male attention..i think this is from the way my father treated me in the past...i do not know.ANywyas im still like this and im 17 now.I do not want to be like this anymore.I dotn understand why i need so much attention.it gets to the point where people judge me for it and my mom doenst want to be around me anymore.What am i supposed to do about this and i really need advice. -- Posted by The Last Magister at 1:25 pm on Nov. 29, 2008 ADD anyone? -- Posted by Dev95 at 1:25 pm on Nov. 29, 2008 Keep to yourself and just be really quiet until you grow out of that habit. -- Posted by Shania1 at 1:26 pm on Nov. 29, 2008 Quote: from Dev95 at 1:25 pm on Nov. 29, 2008 Keep to yourself and just be really quiet until you grow out of that habit. best way out.   -- Posted by Monroe at 1:26 pm on Nov. 29, 2008 I think you should just really think about it. I mean, you already know you have a problem, so why not change it? No one can change it for you, and if you ever want true love, you're going to have to be selfless, and not selfish. Maybe write down all the things you want to be different about yourself, and then write down how to change those things, and keep that list in your purse or pocket at all times? -- Posted by greatescape at 1:28 pm on Nov. 29, 2008 Quote: from TheLastMagister at 3:25 pm on Nov. 29, 2008 ADD anyone? You just read the topic title and then posted that, didn't you? -- Posted by tiara at 1:37 pm on Nov. 29, 2008 Yeah I have a sister like that.   Umm try to tone it down, but ultimately you are who you are, attention seeker or non attention seeker