-- Posted by Cosbyness at 8:05 pm on Nov. 29, 2008 So Ive been working with a psychiatrist about opening up and becoming more social so that my life doesn't suck later in my 20's etc. Now, we've boiled it down to to ways I can socialize with people since school isn't going to work. Either a sport or a job. I don't know about any of the clubs or after school activities(if you didn't join them freshman year, you are screwed) same thing goes for sports, I quit football for good reason and not only is it too late for that but they aren't going to teach a Senior how to play a sport. As for the job I don't quite understand. How am I supposed to make friends at a job, say its at a restaraunt or a grocery store. When or why would I socialize, I am there to work, not goof off. I don't get paid to socialize with the employees and it sounds really bad to me. He(psykaitrist) said that I tend to think of things to block myself from doing new things, is this me doing it again or do I just have more morals than the other teens who goof off at work? -- Posted by icecreamsandwich at 8:11 pm on Nov. 29, 2008 you interact with customers and you don't work all the time. then you can goof around. work isnt all about work haha -- Posted by Cosbyness at 8:13 pm on Nov. 29, 2008 Quote: from icecreamsandwich at 8:11 pm on Nov. 29, 2008 you interact with customers and you don't work all the time. then you can goof around. work isnt all about work haha but still, I am paid for even break time, and it would feel wrong.