-- Posted by Chasinghistail at 10:53 pm on Nov. 30, 2008 I have a new girlfriend, we have only been dating for a month now, and i know that a month is not a long time. But i feel that she is everything that i want in a girl, we have an enormous amount of fun together. But last week, she received a letter from her ex, and thats when it all started. I have not read the letter, nor do i wish too. But i knw that her ex is in jail, and he misses her terribly. Probably as much as he misses taking showers alone, bad joke i know. Anyways my girlfriend and i are now having a "week off" from our relationship, the week is meant to help her get her head straight. And figure out whether she wants him or me? But i am lost as to whether im doing the right thing or not.......its very confusing i know, if you need more information pls just ask. -- Posted by Tag548 at 10:55 pm on Nov. 30, 2008 ah i know one thing..if shes ditching you for a dude in jail thats pretty damn humiliating -- Posted by honeybee3333 at 10:55 pm on Nov. 30, 2008 thats crazy... she can't decide? She obviously doesn't love you as much as you'd think. shes not worth waiting for. -- Posted by Aerie at 10:55 pm on Nov. 30, 2008 She's being an ass for doing that to you. She should know wether or not she's totally over her ex. Otherwise she shouldn't be dating. -- Posted by Scarlet Tears at 10:56 pm on Nov. 30, 2008 Let her make her decision If you love that is If you don't love her... Break it off. -- Posted by honeybee3333 at 10:56 pm on Nov. 30, 2008 Quote: from QueenofHope at 10:55 pm on Nov. 30, 2008 She's being an ass for doing that to you. She should know wether or not she's totally over her ex. Otherwise she shouldn't be dating. what I just said   -- Posted by DrFeelgood at 10:58 pm on Nov. 30, 2008 here a hint: Go check why did her ex get in jail for? He might be in jail for being murderer. If it's real, you better move away -- Posted by emo sux69 at 11:11 pm on Nov. 30, 2008 bitches are dumb if you want her, make her jealous and she will beg for you, your prolly wimping out here and shes getting bored. -- Posted by Chocolate Thunda at 11:13 pm on Nov. 30, 2008 She's playing you. She thinks maybe the grass is greener on the other side and doesn't want to step in either direction. Her ex is an ex for a reason, and if she's in doubt that's her problem, not yours. Don't play into her game by allowing her that hold over you. Dump her, she's slime. -- Posted by CrazyGrrl4U at 12:11 am on Dec. 1, 2008 i think that if she having to "decide" whether she wants to be with him or you, its a good signs she is not ready to be in another relationship. If your girlfriend and this guy have a long history and were together than you and her, those feelings never really go away completely case in poing since she to get her head straight. i think the "week off" its a good idea but you gotta keep in mind that the outcome might not be what you expect. but if it were me.. i would break up with person.. being with a person that isnt sure what they want is only leading for bigger heart break and i rather ended now than get my heart broken later and have it hurt worse.. if its meant to be then theyre a possible of getting together later -- Posted by nik1 at 2:35 am on Dec. 1, 2008 Dude.....if she is ga-ga over a guy in the pokey I think you should question her brain. -- Posted by zigily at 8:56 am on Dec. 1, 2008 Don't let her mess you around. Tell her she needs to make her decision- that you're not just going to wait around for her. Personally I'd cut my loses and move on though -- Posted by kristy27 at 9:54 pm on Dec. 1, 2008 Ha what a total bitch. Way to go on her part, trying to go out with a convict! This way when she gets pregnant she will have some loser guy who can't suport her or the kid because he's in and out of jail and not doing nothing with his life but being a thug. The kids daddy will be a loser, the mommy will be in tears all the time because she can't take care of the baby alone, and the daddy will be stealing and making his life like a thug as gangster being a fuckin loser with no college education, no job, and having a background to prevent from getting a good job. Way to go whoever this chick is, sounds like she has a great future with the fucker! And to top it off the the daddy may come around to try and teach the kid to be a loser like him. Next thing you know the little brat is in Juvi for stealing because daddy has no money and mommy is on welfare. What a great life to live! -- Posted by L I F E S so G O O D at 8:53 am on Dec. 2, 2008 First of all, congrats on the new girlfriend! :) Now to get to the serious stuff. Taking the 'weel off' was not a good idea. Especially with the other guy in the picture now. What exactly would she be seeing in this man that is in jail? For the next week, keep reminding her how much you care for her. Tell her of all the fun you and her had together :) If she is smart, she would go back to you. A man in jail is nothing to go after. How the hell would she expect to go to the movies with the jailboy? Hes in Jail! You have a great chance of being back with her, but beware. Talk to her as much as you can.