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-- Posted by Poisonetta at 7:39 am on Dec. 1, 2008

So, my mother found out we were dating because she added Clinton to her Myspace. Well we argued back and forth a little before she gave me her terms.
Finally she said.
"I would like to meet him. He is allowed over but until I trust him you can't go there."
She gave me the rules and also added.
"If I think this is bad for you or if you start changing your beliefs, its over." And I agreed.

So he and I are finally allowed to date. Thank you all for your words of advice. It means alot..
:D


-- Posted by Chiefette at 7:43 am on Dec. 1, 2008

That seems kinda stupid that your parents can end your relationship.  After all, it is your relationship.


-- Posted by sadnessness at 7:44 am on Dec. 1, 2008

YAY :)
good for you!
Keep following her line and i'm sure she'll give you a bit more freedom soon too


-- Posted by Shania1 at 7:45 am on Dec. 1, 2008

sound just like my life. i aint allowed 2 have a relationship at all till im older


-- Posted by hellojamielee at 7:45 am on Dec. 1, 2008

congrats ay :)


-- Posted by snowcone200 at 7:46 am on Dec. 1, 2008

Quote: from Glory at 7:43 am on Dec. 1, 2008


That seems kinda stupid that your parents can end your relationship.

After all who roof she living under?


-- Posted by zluvsanime at 7:47 am on Dec. 1, 2008

good for you


-- Posted by Chiefette at 7:50 am on Dec. 1, 2008

Quote: from snowcone200 at 10:46 am on Dec. 1, 2008


Quote: from Glory at 7:43 am on Dec. 1, 2008

That seems kinda stupid that your parents can end your relationship.

After all who roof she living under?



I usually agree with that sentence, but not in this situation.  Don't parents realize that a majority of the time when they try to put this much control on a childs life that they are going to ultimately rebel?  She may life in their house, by their rules, but they are letting her date this guy.  There should be no if we don't think he is good enough we can force you to break up.  That is just the massive, pole up the ass, need for power prick thing to do.  I could understand if they said, no you cannot date him, but to make her agree that they can end the relationship....no


-- Posted by snowcone200 at 7:58 am on Dec. 1, 2008

Well if the kid wants to meh let them. If they wanna end up societies scum or a nuisance to their family and society thats them. Makes it easier for the rest of us to suceed hehe


-- Posted by BodomChick at 8:17 am on Dec. 1, 2008

awwh i'm happy for you (:


-- Posted by crystal 81308 at 8:21 am on Dec. 1, 2008

aww. yay. thats good:]


-- Posted by Poisonetta at 9:25 am on Dec. 1, 2008

Let me explain; She doesn't know him and realizes it was horrid to not let me date him if she doesn't know him.
But if she meets him and doesn't like him she might stop it.
The rules are shitty but I can now go with him and keep no secrets. :)


-- Posted by theyareAs at 10:51 am on Dec. 1, 2008

Yay for you but your mom seems very controlling


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