-- Posted by Feel The High at 8:17 am on Dec. 1, 2008 After being alone for many months, I saw her, I thought she was very pretty. I was shy to talk to her at the beginning, then like 2 weeks later I started talking to her. We met, she introduced herself.. then she hugged me goodnight that night, she said "His accent is so cute!".. but then she said she liked my friend's voice, I guess she did that because she "didn't want to make my friend jealous".. my friend who is my best guy friend says he doesn't like her. I'm thinking she likes him, we all hang out as a group and she has told all of us that she doesn't like my friend "like that", but she's always giving him more attention. She is very touchy and smiley with everyone (myself included), well she says she loves my hugs and she touches my face.. She has told me that I am friendly and awesome, when she got asked what she thought about what everyone in the group looked like, she only said I am handsome, she said that everyone else is okay.. and I was there when she said it. She calls me "Love Love" but she calls everyone in the group something similar... but she has told me things that she doesn't tell anyone else in the group and she's told me some secrets, I'm good at keeping secrets. One day my best friend was just acting kinda mean to her and just trying to get away from her and she said that her feelings were crushed.. I talked to him about that and now they're friends again.. I told her I had to work because I got a new job and she starts doing that cry that shows that they're sad but it's not really them crying... like "Noo, why??!!!" and she says that "I should get fired on purpose", I'm not gonna listen to her though.. she even said "someone give me a gun so I could kill myself" of course she didn't mean that she was really going to kill herself but it looks as if she wants me around. She was gone for 4 days and I missed her tons, I didn't even want to go outside that much.. Ok so she came back yesterday and I decided not to show so much interest in her, because I think that I showed too much interest at the beginning when I walked with her, and made a deeper voice when talking to her ().. She made me a fansign and I did too.. I'd love to be her boyfriend, I've been doing a lot of thinking about it... I'd work hard to make her happy. -- Posted by audrey820 at 1:28 pm on Dec. 1, 2008 My initial thought:Why is he telling us?! We're not the ones who need to hear it! And after further thought, I'm going to stand by that thought. It seems like you really like her as a person. And she is at least fond of you as well. But it can't go anywhere if you don't make it move forward by talking to her about it. Do you have her phone number? That's a great way to start off. Simply start talking to her one on one. It will show her that you're interested in getting to know more about her. It also gives you the chance to really explore the feelings you have for her. I mean, you've interacted with her and know her somewhat. But talking one on one will give you the chance to get to know more. Then you'll really be sure about your feelings, you know? Then just ask her to hang out one on one and catch a movie. I think she'll know what you mean. See how it goes. Just take this one step at a time and don't feel the need to rush. Of course, you are risking rejection. I won't lie and say it's a sure thing. There's a chance she may not feel the same. But you guys are friends and you should be able to stay that way even if she decides to not take you up on the offer of a date. Just make sure you're mature and treat her with respect. Sorry I couldn't help more. But really the only advice to give is that nothing here will happen unless you make it happen. So take that risk and hope it pays off! Let us know how it goes too. :)