-- Posted by hawtshawty at 8:39 am on Dec. 1, 2008 she drinks everyday at least one beer for  a long time now n that hurts me a lot how can i help her? -- Posted by SpottedTiger at 8:40 am on Dec. 1, 2008 One beer isn't that bad, but if you're worried call the AA hotline or something. -- Posted by santana 08 at 8:40 am on Dec. 1, 2008 Why does that hurt you? -- Posted by HatesYou at 8:40 am on Dec. 1, 2008 When you find out let me know cause i think my mom has the same problem.  Maybe.  Not sure.  Juuusssttt maybe.  Not positive about this yet.  Just have a suspicion.  Not completely sure.  At all.  But yah. -- Posted by Latin Muscle at 8:41 am on Dec. 1, 2008 Low-class Drunkard. Help her by telling her you will leave. Remind her she s showing you by example, and you will turn into a prostitute and get AIDS if she does not stop drinking. -- Posted by Arrow at 8:42 am on Dec. 1, 2008 AA -- Posted by its only me at 8:42 am on Dec. 1, 2008 get her help. If she's incapable of doing it herself you need to do it for her. Go to the doctors. They might be able to help, or a drop in centre?. But most importantly make her realise if she wants to keep you she has to stop drinking because its hurting you and you want her to be a part of your life for the long run - not 5 years down the line in a hospital bed with irreversable extensive liver damage. -- Posted by Latin Muscle at 8:44 am on Dec. 1, 2008 Bring beer to the living room. Once she starts drinking take photos secretly. Call cops. Show them the photos of her being a crazed drunk. Have her arrested. WIN. -- Posted by The Fantasy at 8:46 am on Dec. 1, 2008 One beer isn't extremely bad, trust me I know, but if it hurts you, tell her. -- Posted by crystal 81308 at 8:47 am on Dec. 1, 2008 one beer isnt bad. but then. talk to her. tell her. tell her how you feel. -- Posted by BubbleCake at 9:23 am on Dec. 2, 2008 Hey there, Your mum needs too know that her drinking very night is upsetting you. Does your father live with you? Have you any siblings that live with you? Gather with your other family members that live with you and voice your concerns. Do it as soon as you can. The sooner the better. If its just yourself and your mum in your house, gather up some of your close relations - like your aunts and uncles. Confront her over her drinking and hopefully she will realise that she has been upsetting you and things will change. There is no point staying in silence if something like this really is hurting you. Best of luck! -- Posted by hawtshawty at 9:25 am on Dec. 2, 2008 Quote: from laineyloo at 9:23 am on Dec. 2, 2008 Hey there, Your mum needs too know that her drinking very night is upsetting you. Does your father live with you? Have you any siblings that live with you? Gather with your other family members that live with you and voice your concerns. Do it as soon as you can. The sooner the better.   If its just yourself and your mum in your house, gather up some of your close relations - like your aunts and uncles. Confront her over her drinking and hopefully she will realise that she has been upsetting you and things will change. There is no point staying in silence if something like this really is hurting you. Best of luck! Hey thanks i talked to her last night she said that she is gonna do her best to Not drink i hope it works   -- Posted by BubbleCake at 9:28 am on Dec. 2, 2008 Quote: from hawtshawty at 5:25 pm on Dec. 2, 2008 Quote: from laineyloo at 9:23 am on Dec. 2, 2008 Hey there,    Your mum needs too know that her drinking very night is upsetting you. Does your father live with you? Have you any siblings that live with you? Gather with your other family members that live with you and voice your concerns. Do it as soon as you can. The sooner the better.    If its just yourself and your mum in your house, gather up some of your close relations - like your aunts and uncles. Confront her over her drinking and hopefully she will realise that she has been upsetting you and things will change. There is no point staying in silence if something like this really is hurting you.    Best of luck! Hey thanks i talked to her last night she said that she is gonna do her best to Not drink i hope it works   Good to hear. I hope everything works out for you.