-- Posted by southernstripper at 9:02 am on Dec. 1, 2008 My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost two years now. He turned 22 last week and I'm 18. In august we moved in together and things started going downhill. When we get infights he call me very harsh names and pushed me around. Last week my brother was visiting and my boyfriend started shit with me. he was pushing me around and shoving me. well my brother gave him a few chances, and when he wouldnt stop he gave the boyfriend a bloody nose. now my brother and i are out of the house and my boyfreind has apoligized to both of us. well i met a cute guy the other day and he asked if i had a boyfriend. i didnt now. haha. Do i have a boyfriend  and as much as i love him is it safe for me to be with him? (he's bipolar and refuses to take medication) -- Posted by Latin Muscle at 9:03 am on Dec. 1, 2008 This is a DEATH SENTENCE for you. A bipolar imbecile will end up doing many bad things when abusive. GET OUT of the relationship. -- Posted by Discordany at 9:03 am on Dec. 1, 2008 YOu have a boyfriend, but you shouldnt. Break up with him. Seriously, you'd be stupid to go back to him. -- Posted by erika crystalx3 at 9:04 am on Dec. 1, 2008 Well he needs to take his meds, tell him that or your leaving your not in a safe situation at all, you never know when he can get worse. What started all the fighting in the first place? -- Posted by Gaelle at 9:04 am on Dec. 1, 2008 Quote: from latin muscle at 9:03 am on Dec. 1, 2008 This is a DEATH SENTENCE for you. A bipolar imbecile will end up doing many bad things when abusive. GET OUT of the relationship. I can only agree to this. Trust me. I know. PM me if you want to talk about it. I don't really feel comfortable talking about it on the forums. -- Posted by Nalexandra09 at 9:05 am on Dec. 1, 2008 itll get worse if you dont stop it now -- Posted by snowcone200 at 9:05 am on Dec. 1, 2008 Theres really nothing we can suggest to help you. You have to want to leave the relationship or else what we suggest will be pointless anyway. If you really wanted to leave you should be packin now -- Posted by southernstripper at 9:05 am on Dec. 1, 2008 Quote: from erika crystalx3 at 12:04 pm on Dec. 1, 2008 Well he needs to take his meds, tell him that or your leaving your not in a safe situation at all, you never know when he can get worse. What started all the fighting in the first place? he started drinking alot which sets him off. -- Posted by abra cadabra at 9:09 am on Dec. 1, 2008 As hard as it is to let someone you love go, it's better for you in the long run. Especially if you're finding yourself sad more than happy. -- Posted by Teenie1 at 9:12 am on Dec. 1, 2008 Hmm, Hes harsh, yu should tell him to take meds or you will leave -- Posted by hiddenfromlove91 at 9:14 am on Dec. 1, 2008 well he's harsh. and refuses to take his med. and he pushes u around. i wouldn't stay with him if i were you -- Posted by scout123 at 9:14 am on Dec. 1, 2008 he doesn;t care about you enough if he's not taking his meds to stop flipping out on you. he's being selfish. -- Posted by Points at 9:15 am on Dec. 1, 2008 Quote: from latin muscle at 9:03 am on Dec. 1, 2008 This is a DEATH SENTENCE for you. A bipolar imbecile will end up doing many bad things when abusive. GET OUT of the relationship. Qft -- Posted by lisababyyy at 1:18 pm on Dec. 1, 2008 deffinetly not safe