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-- Posted by Anonymous at 4:18 pm on Dec. 1, 2008

I'm too much of a fucking people pleaser and because of that I'm almost never happy. I don't really have views of my own because I want everyone to like me and I conform to different views on the spot. And recently I've just been so angry and tired from all of this that I don't know what to do. I just wish I didn't care.


-- Posted by Anonymous Chris at 4:19 pm on Dec. 1, 2008

Stop pleasing?


-- Posted by babecakes at 4:19 pm on Dec. 1, 2008

Quote: from Anonymous Chris at 4:19 pm on Dec. 1, 2008


Stop pleasing?

this


-- Posted by HiRyo at 4:20 pm on Dec. 1, 2008

:D Yay you gots a view on this!

Now keep getting opinionated and don't do anything you wont get back in return. BECOME A MONSTER.

RAWRR
RAWWRRR

RRAWWWWWRRRRRRRR


-- Posted by whoami111 at 4:20 pm on Dec. 1, 2008

Start being a bit more demanding?


-- Posted by CeriseGlitterspark at 4:20 pm on Dec. 1, 2008

I wish I could be pleased by someone right now...
But that's a little bit off topic.
XD


-- Posted by fluffy panties at 4:21 pm on Dec. 1, 2008

Quote: from Hiryo at 4:20 pm on Dec. 1, 2008


:D Yay you gots a view on this!

Now keep getting opinionated and don't do anything you wont get back in return. BECOME A MONSTER.

RAWRR
RAWWRRR

RRAWWWWWRRRRRRRR


This is better.


-- Posted by CeriseGlitterspark at 4:21 pm on Dec. 1, 2008

Anyway, for real advice...
Honesty. Just start being totally honest with people. You don't have to be a jackass, just tell people the truth.


-- Posted by sieeeeerra at 4:23 pm on Dec. 1, 2008

This is really your option.
If you don't want to please people all the time why not do something for yourself every once in awhile?
I heard taking a day off once or twice always puts the mind at ease.
Your almost never happy because your more of a taker than a giver and in this case you are giving more than your taking.
Maybe ask your friends to give you something now and then and you'll be a little happier.


-- Posted by bubble girl2 at 4:25 pm on Dec. 1, 2008

i use to be the same way.  it was horrible.  i was depressed, all the time, i let people take advantage of me all the time.  you can send me a message if you want... i can give you some tips.


-- Posted by NikkiInkz at 4:43 pm on Dec. 1, 2008

You must have your owns views, next time tell people and they'll respect you a lot more. I promise


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