-- Posted by Anonymous at 4:20 pm on Dec. 1, 2008 i really am afraid im wasting my teenage life years away. i know alot of people, dont get me wrong.  i want to know more though, moreso more guys. i still haevnt kissed a boy, and im 16!  however.  i didnt start looking pretty until 14-15, from straightening my hair.  now i get stares from guys, and i wish i could find a way to meet them.  its hard to go up to cute boys that cherck me out going "so, i see your checking me out?" im SHY.  I can't do things like that.  and the guys i know, all wanna do me and shit  like that.  but i want to LIKE somebody before i have a relationship. The attention is nice, but I dont like any of them. but i do like this guy, he's cute, and im 100 percent sure he likes me, but he's taking to fucking long to make a move, and to make it worse, he thinks kissing is gross. and i dont smoke or drink or do drugs because its just...bad... am i wasting my life away?  i feel like im not kissing guys and dating everybody, so im living a useless life.  any consolation? =/ -- Posted by whoami111 at 4:21 pm on Dec. 1, 2008 Don't worry it is still early to date -- Posted by HiRyo at 4:22 pm on Dec. 1, 2008 No your not wasting your life away. Take you time on this, if you keep wanting it so bad you'll appear as desperate. Chill and flirt. Thats your best weapon. (: He'll make a move. If you think hes taking to long, nothing wrong with you setting up a 'hangout' for something to happen? If that fails, just make the move yourself! -- Posted by The Sarah at 4:23 pm on Dec. 1, 2008 It's a pretty strong statement to say that no kissing equates to a wasted life. Why do you feel pressured to measure your life by how many boyfriends you've had? (Not a rhetorical question... think about it.) -- Posted by Dev95 at 4:25 pm on Dec. 1, 2008 Don't wait for him to make the first move, take charge girl!! -- Posted by Aliboo at 4:26 pm on Dec. 1, 2008 No your a good person. Live however you want what your doing sounds good. you might want to find someone thats a little more forward -- Posted by honeybee3333 at 4:29 pm on Dec. 1, 2008 guys aren't worth it anyway.