-- Posted by guitar freak at 6:22 pm on Dec. 1, 2008 I have been trying so hard to make things work with me and my kinda ex-girlfriend. She dosnt seem to be puting in as much effort. I know she loves me, and I love her. But I have been deal with this for over two years. Im sick of trying so hard just to have her not seem to care. Yes, ive talked to her about this, she didnt seem to care then either. I told her that if shes not going to try, neither am i. -- Posted by Antigen at 6:24 pm on Dec. 1, 2008 thats women for ya they say what they dont want and dont say what they wish you would do =| -- Posted by Zetsuai at 6:25 pm on Dec. 1, 2008 Aww. Maybe moving on would be good for you then? It's not easy to get back into relationships. -- Posted by guitar freak at 6:25 pm on Dec. 1, 2008 Quote: from joziah at 6:24 pm on Dec. 1, 2008 thats women for ya they say what they dont want and dont say what they wish you would do =| ya think it would be easier seeing as im a girl too.. -- Posted by Clarie at 6:25 pm on Dec. 1, 2008 well thats good, if you love her and she loves you she should show she cares, and you shouldnt try as hard, if you lay she may see your not chasing her and she will start chasing you, and if that doesnt work, then shes not worth it -- Posted by ashleyacid at 6:26 pm on Dec. 1, 2008 If shes not wanting to make this work between you to maybe you should just let it go and move on. She might not care as much as you do about wanting this to work. It might be better that way because you may end up getting hurt even more if you keep trying to get back into a relationship. You may both still love each other, but some things just arnt meant to work out. -- Posted by OkayKelsey at 6:36 pm on Dec. 1, 2008 go for it then! she will probs get shitty -- Posted by ErnestoTheTrippyOne at 6:44 pm on Dec. 1, 2008 Quote: from guitar freak at 9:25 pm on Dec. 1, 2008 Quote: from joziah at 6:24 pm on Dec. 1, 2008 thats women for ya    they say what they dont want and dont say what they wish you would do =| ya think it would be easier seeing as im a girl too..