-- Posted by EyeoftheBeholder at 8:56 pm on Dec. 1, 2008 I was on the phone with my girlfriend tonight and she told me how she and her friend were talking about what they'd do if their boyfriends cheated on them. Anyway, it came up how she doesn't believe me when I tell her I would never cheat on her. And she said "What if you're just a really good liar? I'm scared to believe you and end up being crushed if you are lying." She thinks that if I ever get mad at her I'll be too afraid to break up with her and just cheat on her. She also believes that would happen if I find another girl. But I love her more than anything in the world. I can't even look at another person the way I look at her. She is absolutely perfect. How can I make her believe me? -- Posted by Aerie at 8:57 pm on Dec. 1, 2008 Stop telling her, clearly words don't mean much to her. Show her, Ignore girls when they attempt to flirt with you etc. -- Posted by Lothar1 at 8:57 pm on Dec. 1, 2008 you cant....you really cant all you can do is constantly prove her wrong and mabey eventually she will believe you -- Posted by cowgirlyehaa at 8:58 pm on Dec. 1, 2008 Let her trust you. Don't just tell her, show her. She sounds like she has low self-esteem. So maybe compliment her sometimes? -- Posted by minnie38 at 8:59 pm on Dec. 1, 2008 make her really happy by getting her a gift -- Posted by EyeoftheBeholder at 8:59 pm on Dec. 1, 2008 I compliment her all the time. She sometimes gets annoyed with how much I do and thinks I'm lying. -- Posted by EyeoftheBeholder at 9:03 pm on Dec. 1, 2008 I guess the frustrating part is that we've been dating for a year and a half and now, for some reason, she thinks I would even think about cheating on her.