-- Posted by Anonymous at 11:07 pm on Dec. 1, 2008 well. i'm just going to cut to the chase. my best friends sister is really interested in me. were juniors, she and her friends are freshman. thing is... if anything every "happened" between me and her... like, i'd be assassinated by her parents if they found out, or my friend (her brother) would kill me. any suggestions on this? -- Posted by Bbilly at 11:10 pm on Dec. 1, 2008 Well first of all are you male or female...? -- Posted by Aerie at 11:10 pm on Dec. 1, 2008 You need to drop it. Don't mess with her. -- Posted by Chasinghistail at 11:10 pm on Dec. 1, 2008 Tell her she's too young for you, but knowing me at your age...i would of just pounded her and not told anyone.... -- Posted by x FENRIS x at 11:10 pm on Dec. 1, 2008 Well if you're interested too, you could try to make something work. With the disapproval of the family though, it could be hard. If you do go for it, I'd suggest making sure you're both interested, and know the consequences before you try talking to disapproving parties like parents (this is also really important). -- Posted by Anonymous at 11:12 pm on Dec. 1, 2008 the thing is, i think if something happens it'll be spontaneous. i'm a guy btw. no lesbian stuff here haha -- Posted by Bbilly at 11:15 pm on Dec. 1, 2008 Hah, well I would just keep the relationship going and see what happends then. If her family doesnt allow her to have a boyfriend I would just stay friends and dont mess anything up. I recently dated a girl who isnt aloud and all hell broke loose. Trust me. -- Posted by Ramellan at 11:18 pm on Dec. 1, 2008 i say go for it -- Posted by x FENRIS x at 11:18 pm on Dec. 1, 2008 Quote: from Anonymous at 6:12 pm on Dec. 2, 2008 the thing is, i think if something happens it'll be spontaneous. i'm a guy btw. no lesbian stuff here haha I think that's the best way anonymous. I'd go for it if anything happens, and play it on from there. -- Posted by See Me Now at 11:31 pm on Dec. 1, 2008 Don't act on it, there are plenty of girls in the world, and you don't need to mess up your friendship to get some action. -- Posted by nik1 at 1:41 am on Dec. 2, 2008 You have to decide which is more important to you; your health and friendship or the flesh. I would never violate a friends trust and respect.  The only way to get around it is get the approval of your friend and the parents.  Otherwise tie your pecker to your leg and wait until she is 17. -- Posted by L I F E S so G O O D at 8:38 am on Dec. 2, 2008 What would be the harm in going after her? Who seriously cares what other think.