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-- Posted by Anonymous at 1:15 am on Dec. 2, 2008

I think my boyfriend is TOO nice. He tries to do absolutely everything for me and cater to my every little need. I know he is just trying to be a good boyfriend but he seems to be trying too hard and hes doing too much.  I appreciate it...but...It comes off as a bit suffocating and clingy at times.
What should I do?


-- Posted by cupcake25 at 1:17 am on Dec. 2, 2008

just tell him,
its better you till him now before you start disliking him


-- Posted by lostrealist at 1:18 am on Dec. 2, 2008

be thankful regardless of what he do to you.  At least, he showed how much you mean to him.


-- Posted by JessieLove at 1:20 am on Dec. 2, 2008

bittttch


-- Posted by Randomaster at 1:20 am on Dec. 2, 2008

just tell him that he doesn't have to try hard to impress you or that
tell him to be himself :)
he might get a little embarrassed but he will be happy that you feel comfortable


-- Posted by whoisabs at 1:24 am on Dec. 2, 2008

lol one of my friends does this and it is lol how he can't figure out why girls box him up into the friend zone

you need to explain to him that there are times when a guy needs to say no woman, i've tried to explain this to my friend a few times but he just can't seem to understand the concept


-- Posted by CaliKevin at 1:26 am on Dec. 2, 2008

Find a guy that treats you like shit?


-- Posted by Cosbyness at 1:29 am on Dec. 2, 2008

Quote: from CaliKevin at 1:26 am on Dec. 2, 2008


Find a guy that treats you like shit?

Aiding the enemy?


-- Posted by ang42490424 at 1:30 am on Dec. 2, 2008

Tell him to stop doing that all the time. Spoiling you won't do much good. When he can't do that, you will want him to and . . . we . . . you might break-up because he can't continue.


-- Posted by CaliKevin at 1:31 am on Dec. 2, 2008

Quote: from Cosbyness at 1:29 am on Dec. 2, 2008


Quote: from CaliKevin at 1:26 am on Dec. 2, 2008

Find a guy that treats you like shit?

Aiding the enemy?

Well, it sounds like that's where her twisted logic is leading her anyways.  Might as well point her in the proper direction.


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