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-- Posted by dabomb09 at 7:22 am on Dec. 2, 2008

actually work?
I tried it once and then i started falling for the guy, but the favor wasn't exactly returned.


-- Posted by santana 08 at 7:22 am on Dec. 2, 2008

Works for me


-- Posted by Live Just To Die at 7:22 am on Dec. 2, 2008

Yeah. It can do.


-- Posted by xoAllixs0n at 7:22 am on Dec. 2, 2008

No. Usually not.

One of you always ends up forming some sort of attachment to the other, and then when one of you finds a significant other, theres some hurt feelings.


-- Posted by twerp at 7:23 am on Dec. 2, 2008

ya it works if you dont end up falling for the person


-- Posted by fluffy panties at 7:23 am on Dec. 2, 2008

Works for me.


-- Posted by Feel The High at 7:23 am on Dec. 2, 2008

It doesn't work and I'd never become just friends with benefits with the girl I like..


-- Posted by Event Horizon at 7:23 am on Dec. 2, 2008

That's because you did it wrong.

You are supposed to be friends and then add the benefits.
I've had a relationship like that. It worked out fine, then I got a girlfriend and we stopped screwing around. Still good friends


-- Posted by Rebecca li at 7:23 am on Dec. 2, 2008

Sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn't.


-- Posted by IceTeaEdwin at 7:24 am on Dec. 2, 2008

You're doing it wrong.


-- Posted by Event Horizon at 7:24 am on Dec. 2, 2008

Quote: from BeCool90 at 10:23 am on Dec. 2, 2008


It doesn't work and I'd never become just friends with benefits with the girl I like..

That's because that is not how it works.


-- Posted by zluvsanime at 7:45 am on Dec. 2, 2008

about 50 50


-- Posted by fullmooncurse at 7:47 am on Dec. 2, 2008

It hasn't been working for me.


-- Posted by liv21 at 7:47 am on Dec. 2, 2008

It works for some people, but it can be hard.  Both people need to keep their emotions in check.  Typically girls will go for friends with benefits with a guy that they like or grow to like, hoping that guy will eventually fall for them.  But it doesn't happen, for whatever reason.  Sometimes guys don't want to buy the cow when they get the milk for free, other times they don't see the girl as anything but a sexual being, or even a slut.

Communication is absolutely key, no matter what.  It's the only thing that will keep you out of a bad situation.


-- Posted by BodomChick at 7:57 am on Dec. 2, 2008

yeah it can


-- Posted by crystal 81308 at 8:00 am on Dec. 2, 2008

it works. sometimes you fall
for the guy thoughh.


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