-- Posted by Anonymous at 7:25 am on Dec. 2, 2008 when me and my boyfriend make out or have sex, it's usually indirectly. what i mean is i don't tell him to do this or do that. i don't really communicate to him what feels good, instead i kinda shyly guide him sometimes. it's never the look into each other's eyes thing and make out type of scenario. it's usually when we laying in the bed and it's basically indirect kind of stuff. i wonder if anyone ever had this problem. i just never outwardly talk to him about sex or anything like that. i more am action type of person and then when it's over. i don't wanna talk about it or remember it... why is that? -- Posted by IceTeaEdwin at 7:26 am on Dec. 2, 2008 Cuz it's not good sex? -- Posted by Anonymous at 7:27 am on Dec. 2, 2008 Quote: from IceTeaEdwin at 7:26 am on Dec. 2, 2008 Cuz it's not good sex? no cause it feels really good, burt i just don't talk about it. -- Posted by fluffy panties at 7:27 am on Dec. 2, 2008 Sure you're emotionally ready to get pumped? -- Posted by IceTeaEdwin at 7:27 am on Dec. 2, 2008 Quote: from fluffy panties at 9:27 am on Dec. 2, 2008 Sure you're emotionally ready to get pumped? Or this... -- Posted by Anonymous at 7:27 am on Dec. 2, 2008 Quote: from fluffy panties at 7:27 am on Dec. 2, 2008 Sure you're emotionally ready to get pumped? what does that mean? -- Posted by Shania1 at 7:28 am on Dec. 2, 2008 ur probably just nervous. tell him wat u want him 2 do, thn pleasure him the way he wants, thn it'll make u both happy!!:) -- Posted by twerp at 7:28 am on Dec. 2, 2008 its normal my last gf was the same way she never said anythinmg she just guided to wat she waanted, a lot of girls do that it is cause yall are shy and not really sure how to say wat ur thinking so u just guide its perfectly normal -- Posted by IceTeaEdwin at 7:32 am on Dec. 2, 2008 Quote: from Anonymous at 9:27 am on Dec. 2, 2008 Quote: from fluffy panties at 7:27 am on Dec. 2, 2008 Sure you're emotionally ready to get pumped? what does that mean? I think he means that you aren't completely in love/emotionally connected with your boyfriend and that's why you can't communicate during your sexy love making. -- Posted by Karyssia at 7:32 am on Dec. 2, 2008 I'm the same way XD it's normal -- Posted by zluvsanime at 7:40 am on Dec. 2, 2008 nope, im a virgin :(