-- Posted by Thejoeyc at 8:33 am on Dec. 2, 2008 so i have this problem, right, and its really starting to get bad cus this chick i used to date keeps making appearances in my dreams and my every thought. PROBLEM: we've been broken up for a year this december.i cant get her owta my mind. ive had other girlfriends but the pale in comparison. SOLUTION: ????? help...? -- Posted by L I F E S so G O O D at 8:35 am on Dec. 2, 2008 it is very clear that you still have feelings for her. Have you talked to her yet? Does she know that you still care for her? I've been in the same boat as you dude. This one girl, I couldn't get her off my mind, and the funny part is, we never dated. Try going up to her and telling her how you feel. Chances are she still has feelings for you. What kind of dreams are you having? -- Posted by newbie69 at 8:39 am on Dec. 2, 2008 Heyy, i used to be like you. Me and one of my ex went out for a good 6 years and a half. Things ended, and i wanted him back badly. But within the years that had passed, i got over him. I dont see him alot and it helps. Im over him now. But i will always have a special place in my heart for him, because he was my first true love. And whenever i see him, memories come back to me, but now hes only one of my good friends.:) -- Posted by willson at 8:42 am on Dec. 2, 2008 i got the same thing but we have been broke up for 7 months and i dont know how to get her out of my head. so i fight alot at bars cuz its all i can do to keep her out of my mind