-- Posted by Razor03 at 6:48 pm on Dec. 2, 2008 I was raised to be a gentleman and respect women. I also strive to be a good guy and I am. I've been told on many occasions that I'm a gentleman and "such a nice". Somehow I thought I would be liked for this...I am in the general since, but not so much when it comes to romance. I'm either never given a chance or I'm crushed. All for the sake of being with anybody else it seems. In addition, I've noticed people don't seem to take me seriously. I'm not passive by any means, if people start crap with me I stand my ground. For crying out loud I'm a black belt, cage fighter, and in the army! Still, people choose to leave me out of serious situations. What's the point of being a good guy if all you get is shit? -- Posted by Jman19 at 6:49 pm on Dec. 2, 2008 There is no point. -- Posted by TruexZero at 6:49 pm on Dec. 2, 2008 All pussies claim they're "good guys" and then get pissed when a guy with more balls gets their girl. -- Posted by OodleNoodle at 6:49 pm on Dec. 2, 2008 Teenage girls don't know what they want. You will see. I've dated some total assholes and my really good friend (who sounds just like you) got dumped because he was "too nice". But I prefer nice guys. I've had enough of being treated like garbage. I want a gentleman. -- Posted by cowgirlyehaa at 6:51 pm on Dec. 2, 2008 I love good guys, they are the only ones I would ever date. Guys that talk crap or treat me and others like crap, total turn off. Dont worry, I'm not the only one out there that loves good guys. Some girl will be extremely lucky if your heart caputures hers. -- Posted by patziiilla at 6:52 pm on Dec. 2, 2008 I'm a nice guy and an asshole. You have to be to get anywhere in life. -- Posted by return2me at 6:52 pm on Dec. 2, 2008 I agree...Ive always been the "nice guy" too. Girls will not take us seriously, but complain about their bfs being jerks. -.- -- Posted by Violagirl19 at 6:53 pm on Dec. 2, 2008 I like nice guys!  Wish I could find one!! -- Posted by LucidAssassin at 6:54 pm on Dec. 2, 2008 apparently there is no point -- Posted by SeekingPurity at 6:56 pm on Dec. 2, 2008 I am also considered a "good guy". I figure if I don't get a girl because she wants someone who's disrespectful but "cool" or "tough" (overusing the quotes a bit I guess), she can have him. It's worth it being the nice guy, you may just end up making someones day. -- Posted by bigredron at 6:56 pm on Dec. 2, 2008 yeh trust me dude im in the same boat. im a nice guy and girls say they want them but trust me they dont. they like asshole guys who treat them like shit -- Posted by the seer at 6:56 pm on Dec. 2, 2008 Quote: from TruexZero at 6:49 pm on Dec. 2, 2008 All pussies claim they're "good guys" and then get pissed when a guy with more balls gets their girl. this happens weather you really are the "good" guy or just a pussy. and more often than not "more balls" translates into "total asshole" -- Posted by lucid dreams19 at 6:59 pm on Dec. 2, 2008 Quote: from return2me at 8:52 pm on Dec. 2, 2008 I agree...Ive always been the "nice guy" too.   Girls will not take us seriously, but complain about their bfs being jerks. -.- this haha im like that too, always seem to be put in the friend zone -- Posted by sharongmc at 7:02 pm on Dec. 2, 2008 I think you should just continue on being nice to girls.  Although it's hard to find the right one, when you found it, it's worth the wait.  . I waited 3 years (3 years without a relationship) for my current relationship and that's what makes it extra special. . . -- Posted by BikerTeen at 7:05 pm on Dec. 2, 2008 yeah i know what you mean -- Posted by the seer at 7:25 pm on Dec. 2, 2008 thought it is still very frusturating. -- Posted by nullPointerException at 7:43 pm on Dec. 2, 2008 fuck, guess this means i will die a virgin. oh the burden =( -- Posted by iconoclast at 9:28 pm on Dec. 2, 2008 you need to start being somewhat of a sarcastic jerk but that doesnt mean you have to truly 'disrespect' anyone, just on the surface that is i used to be like that and people think they can walk all over you and find it 'boring' -- Posted by Annaislost at 10:12 pm on Dec. 2, 2008 Not all girls are that way. and if they dump you for being "too nice" how stupid are they? -- Posted by Helios at 11:19 pm on Dec. 2, 2008 I was raised the same way and sometimes it can be hard, but even if it doesnt seem that way, you being nice and polite will one day get you that special someone. Some girls like bad guys or trouble makers and these are obviously not the kind of girl you want. One day you will find someone that appreciates that way of thinking and will reward you for it. -- Posted by SadnessNTurmoil at 12:35 am on Dec. 4, 2008 Goes both ways I would guess. Im pretty damn nice but im also shy, low self esteem and all that good stuff XD so yeah only you can be your "own" worst enemy dont worry theres someone for you always...just depends how long you wanna wait XD sometimes how much you wanna settle aswell I have girls who liked me but i didnt want them cause i wasnt really attracted to them so i cant really talk shit XD