-- Posted by Anonymous at 2:42 am on Dec. 3, 2008 this past year i've been fucked over by some sketchy fucking characters. people who lie and manipulate and are generally cunts. i never used to be the kinda person who'd talk behind peoples backs and stuff but recently i started venting about all these people saying what i've been thinking over and over. i feel like i've started bitching behind peoples backs and i'm worried people are pissed off at me for it. sure all the shit i said was justified but maybe i shouldn'ta said it. i don't wanna buy into all the drama and shit anymore and i don't wanna talk behind peoples backs. i'm worried it's too late and people might hate me for it. i know one guys is saying everyone hates me and shit but that mighta been just cuz i didn't really give a fuck when he got arrested. he's kind of an asshole. so from now on im gonna be nice again i just hope it's not too late. it's just weird i really did need to talk to someone about getting fucked over so much and it was kinda addictive, anylizing people and shit. has anyone else experienced that? -- Posted by Vbby at 2:47 am on Dec. 3, 2008 dont hate yourself, its called LIFE -- Posted by Missyjane at 2:51 am on Dec. 3, 2008 Don't hate yourself. Hate the bastards. -- Posted by Autumndaze at 1:24 pm on Dec. 4, 2008 Yes, I've experienced. If those people are really as bad as you're saying I don't see why you should care about what that guy is saying. What people don't realize is that there is a HUGE difference between talking about someone in any way you'd like and then not faking like you haven't talked shit about them, gossiping, and being a backstabber. BUT it only takes one slip up to make one of those things turn into the other. And there's the biggest difference when you're talking about them but being nice to them in front of their face. Is that what you're doing?   If so...of course people will be even angrier when you're talking about people when it's behind their backs and then when you're in front of them and they've already found out it's not exactly going to be "rainbows, lollipops, and unicorns" with them. They're going to be pissed and you know that. Even if they're horrible I don't see why you should talk about them behind their backs and then being nice to them when you're right in front of them. And of course people you wouldn't even expect to be mad at you, be mad at you because from talking about people behind their backs it will make them think: "Well..shit..if she/he's talking about them behind their backs..She could be saying something about them". That's simply the kind of crap that comes with talking about people behind their backs to others, expect it. If you don't like someone, don't do that type of stuff..be real with them. So to sum this all up: If you can't take the heat, stay out of the kitchen and be real with others. -- Posted by One Two Step at 1:30 pm on Dec. 4, 2008 Just stop hanging out with them. Stay true to yourself and dont be influence negatively, disregard how they act.