-- Posted by Descartes at 11:47 am on Dec. 3, 2008 nvm -- Posted by holodeck87 at 11:48 am on Dec. 3, 2008 You can't... -- Posted by Descartes at 11:49 am on Dec. 3, 2008 theres got to be SOMETHING i can do :( -- Posted by dnd at 11:49 am on Dec. 3, 2008 the truth... talk it out with her and try to understand how she feels.. maybe she'll come around. -- Posted by BrokenBelief at 11:50 am on Dec. 3, 2008 Tell her she's being completely fucking ridiculous.  The simple matter is that she is.  Tell her to try and imagine it the other way around.  If she was in a serious relationship and had sex, does she believe that it would change the person she is, or should have any effect on the person she's with at present? If she can't get over the past, a healthy relationship is never going to work. -- Posted by SuperSarah at 11:50 am on Dec. 3, 2008 tell her the past is the past and it meant nothing and how the hell did u guys wait a yr??? Are you guys like 13? lol she has to lose it sometimes she should stop being a baby really -- Posted by keilani at 11:50 am on Dec. 3, 2008 ok whenever u can sit somewhere and talk to her just be honest let her know that there is nothing to worry about and that she can trust you -- Posted by bluebutterfly4ever at 11:50 am on Dec. 3, 2008 you cant fix it...prove to her that she is the only one that you love that no matter if u were with someone else in the past she is the only one that you want to be with... -- Posted by Descartes at 11:54 am on Dec. 3, 2008 No were not 13, im 19 and shes 18. We just didnt have sex, everything but. And ive tried all of that. Ive talked to her. She knows how much i love her. She knows how much she means to me. I tried saying well then we just wont have sex.(cuz i love her with all my heart and i could live without it) she just doesnt think she can get over it. UGH. i mean she knows the other girl doesnt mean anything to me anymore. we dont even talk. She's like convinced it wont be special since ive already done it :/ -- Posted by rozenmaiden101 at 11:55 am on Dec. 3, 2008 She'll come back after a couple months. Just keep poppin' up in her life every now and again. -- Posted by keilani at 11:56 am on Dec. 3, 2008 Quote: from rudecrudeswimingdud at 11:54 am on Dec. 3, 2008 No were not 13, im 19 and shes 18. We just didnt have sex, everything but. And ive tried all of that. Ive talked to her. She knows how much i love her. She knows how much she means to me. I tried saying well then we just wont have sex.(cuz i love her with all my heart and i could live without it) she just doesnt think she can get over it. UGH. i mean she knows the other girl doesnt mean anything to me anymore. we dont even talk. She's like convinced it wont be special since ive already done it :/ just talk to her -- Posted by Descartes at 11:58 am on Dec. 3, 2008 ive tried talking to her, ive been pouring my heart and soul out to her for like 2 weeks now -- Posted by southernstripper at 5:10 pm on Dec. 3, 2008 dont be an overdramatic bitch. -- Posted by Descartes at 6:44 pm on Dec. 3, 2008 haha ok asshole -- Posted by charolette2323 at 8:39 pm on Dec. 3, 2008 you're obviously both in love... don't let her end it because of this -- Posted by theyareAs at 8:57 pm on Dec. 3, 2008 Talk to her and maybe get her some experiance? idk man thats a very tough sit you got there. dont let her go -- Posted by Descartes at 9:01 pm on Dec. 3, 2008 i know its frustrating the hell out of me. because things were fucking perfect and this like came out of no where. and its not that shes worried cuz shes not experienced. she just doesnt think it will be special because i am experienced :/ -- Posted by cowgirlyehaa at 9:27 pm on Dec. 3, 2008 Well, its rediculous. No ones a virgin these days, and if she REALLY, TRULY LOVED YOU. She wouldnt give a crap -- Posted by SadnessNTurmoil at 12:08 am on Dec. 4, 2008 Raise your right hand....and say..."Please lawd help me keep my pimp hand strong. For dese hoes do not know..." And then SMACK HER WIT IT!! XD j/p Like you didnt really hit a brick wall...like...Shes got to love the crust of a muthafucka.....tell her that....she cant have just the white part of the bread XD Gotta love the crust. Turn a serious situation into a funny one XD -- Posted by Descartes at 10:04 am on Dec. 4, 2008 wow...that actually makes sense...not the pimp hand thing(funny though XD)