-- Posted by Balargon at 4:50 pm on Dec. 3, 2008 i am 15 and i think im pregnant. i am still with the wouldbe father of the baby. i dont know what to do. i dont know whether to keep it or not. what would you do in my place? -- Posted by xixthinkxixlikexyouu at 4:52 pm on Dec. 3, 2008 keep it!! -- Posted by OodleNoodle at 4:53 pm on Dec. 3, 2008 Honestly, I don't know what I would do. I think I would give it up for adoption, but I've never been pregnant and I don't know how hard it would be. Go to a pregnancy counselling centre - they can help you understand all of your options and take appropriate action. -- Posted by xBlackRainbow93x at 4:53 pm on Dec. 3, 2008 Hmmm.. I dunno. I think abortion is horrible.. but I don't think me or my boyfriend would be ready for a baby. Why don't you ask your boyfriend & see what he thinks, if he'd stay with you. I hope so. Remember though, you might not be pregnant, get a test. -- Posted by angel08 at 4:53 pm on Dec. 3, 2008 no abortion! babys need a life too :[ -- Posted by trivium995 at 4:55 pm on Dec. 3, 2008 Quote: from xBlackRainbow93x at 12:53 am on Dec. 4, 2008 Hmmm.. I dunno. I think abortion is horrible.. but I don't think me or my boyfriend would be ready for a baby. Why don't you ask your boyfriend & see what he thinks, if he'd stay with you. I hope so. Remember though, you might not be pregnant, get a test. this. but i have a girlfriend. and i just quoted her. coincidence or what? -- Posted by MixedDelight at 4:57 pm on Dec. 3, 2008 Probably abort it. No way I'm ready to take care of some little hellion. And I'm not excited with blowing up like a balloon and going through pain worse than death to just give it away. :/ -- Posted by forfallonyy at 4:59 pm on Dec. 3, 2008 adoption -- Posted by Descartes at 5:03 pm on Dec. 3, 2008 i have NOOO idea -- Posted by ZOMGimrae at 6:22 pm on Dec. 3, 2008 actually in all seriousness, take a test. Then figure out what to do AFTER you get a positive result from a test AND a doctor. -- Posted by Chiefette at 7:26 am on Dec. 4, 2008 Once you find out you are pregnant, if you are.  I would give it up for adoption.  You need to get your boyfriend, sit down with both sets of parents, and perhaps discuss with them what they think would be best.  You never know, they may want to take the baby and raise it as their own?  They can not make any decisions for you, but they may have some input. -- Posted by katrinadoodle at 7:52 am on Dec. 4, 2008 I would keep it, but then at 15 I had a decent job. If I hadn't, I would have aborted. -- Posted by islandgirl at 10:22 am on Dec. 4, 2008 You need to talk to your parents, and maybe a NON-BIASED women's center or something. Take a look at the options, make pros and cons of each.  Think about how a baby would fit into your life right now: how you'd finish school, whether or not your boyfriend has a chance of staying around for more years that you've been alive, how you'd finance this baby. Look at abortion- what are your feelings on it? if you're avidly anti-choice/pro-life this may not be a good option for you. If you're not, you should look at it. Adoption is another one- some people feel strongly about it either way. You have to think about whether you'd be able to do it after going through a pregnancy (and whether you want to go through a pregnancy in the first place) Basically, very big decision that you need some un-biased support for. -- Posted by erika crystalx3 at 12:28 pm on Dec. 5, 2008 keep it or adoption. -- Posted by angel2fire at 12:40 pm on Dec. 5, 2008 It depends so much on your situation and how YOU feel rather than what people say here. You should discuss this with a close friend/ family member/ school counsellor if you can. Good luck in whatever you decide to do :) -- Posted by meisha at 12:53 pm on Dec. 5, 2008 Take a pregnancy test first so you don't start worrying and it could be nothing. If you are pregnant think about what YOU think you should do not what other people think you should do. Speak to someone close about it and let your boyfriend know about it. Don't be upset with what option you took. Just remember to be careful next time. -- Posted by hersheyparker at 1:43 pm on Dec. 5, 2008 Ok, first find out for sure if you're pregnant or not. Take a test. If you are see a counseling center for young moms. They can help you decide what's best for you. -- Posted by I am luvly at 3:28 pm on Dec. 5, 2008 I'd give it up for adoption if I were in your place.