-- Posted by elplatanero2094 at 11:15 pm on Dec. 3, 2008 my and my gf have been together for about 5 months going on 6, and lately she really hasn't been her sweet, romantic self, actually made feel special and wanted whereas early in the relationship she was all that and more.. im her first bf so i've been extremely patient with her and she's rlly self conscious about the way she is as a gf n stuff but also she's been realllly busy n what not lately so i guess stress might factor into it.. but i was just wondering should i tell her "you know you really havent been acting like yourself lately" or just leave it be? -- Posted by Desertfoxel at 11:16 pm on Dec. 3, 2008 DO IT! -- Posted by Themakingofagod at 11:16 pm on Dec. 3, 2008 Bring it up to her.  For ANY relationship to succeed, communication is key.  She's your girlfriend, you should be able to tell her anything and talk about it without ruining everything. -- Posted by peter110788 at 11:17 pm on Dec. 3, 2008 yh tell her -- Posted by dreamweaver at 11:18 pm on Dec. 3, 2008 Suggest a date night for you two. Just say, "hey, I've noticed we haven't been spending a lot of time together and was wondering if we could have at least one night a week set aside as a 'date night'?" It's not too blunt and it would actually sound very sweet, while it hopefully tells her what's going on in your mind. -- Posted by Total Destruction at 11:18 pm on Dec. 3, 2008 Tell her or more complications may develop. -- Posted by tyler3120695 at 11:18 pm on Dec. 3, 2008 Yeah bring it up to her. its not going to hurt to mention it lol -- Posted by LittleNutTammi at 11:36 pm on Dec. 3, 2008 yes, talk about it. -- Posted by bmw1992 at 11:45 pm on Dec. 3, 2008 just be there 4 her -- Posted by lostrealist at 5:41 am on Dec. 4, 2008 hey i sound like your gf, I ain't that sweet and show love to my bf but deep inside I'm just waiting for him to do things for me at least.  He's my FIRST BF TOO.  Better tell her that you want to spend time with her and tell her how much you love her.  Don't hide your feelings.  Trust me, she'll love it when you do things for her, like surprises, dinner, etc.   My bf and I argue a lot because I ain't the sweet type and he won't tell me what bothers him and so I ended up disappointed and think that maybe he hasn't love me anyway. -- Posted by nik1 at 11:30 am on Dec. 4, 2008 Communications are the key to a good relationship.  Sometimes when sex is involved early in a relationship it becomes the sole focus and becomes boring.