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-- Posted by Chasinghistail at 4:16 am on Dec. 4, 2008
My Girlfriend and I have had a "breakup"...mutual agreement. And I still want to be with her...But i still kinda want her, the problem is though...She is not talking to me, well im not exactly talking to her either. But yeah she hasnt spoke to me in a week, I called her twice and sent her a txt....but i dnt want to over do it. So I don't really want to approach her and force a conversation....Does her ignoring me/not talking to me mean its over? Or is she upset? Or what? Opinions please people..
-- Posted by Manipulative Acid at 10:16 am on Dec. 4, 2008
Yeah it might mean it's over. But it could mean she's upset too. If you want to get back with her, try approaching her slowly, and begin a normal conversation, so that she feels ok in your presence. But if she starts walking away, she's angry at you. Just try talking to her. What's the worst that could happen? Just say what you're feeling. If she says she needs time, give her time, say about 1 week, it would be enough. Just don't expect her to come running back to you, you have to face the worst, if that's the case. Don't ignore her though, that would be rude, even though she's ignoring you. I hope this helps.
-- Posted by GEEraffBby at 1:02 pm on Dec. 4, 2008
It might mean that it really is over. When I ignore I guy.. it means I dont like him and therefore don't want to talk to him
-- Posted by EyeoftheBeholder at 1:29 pm on Dec. 4, 2008
Quote: from yellowacid1 at 10:16 am on Dec. 4, 2008
Yeah it might mean it's over. But it could mean she's upset too. If you want to get back with her, try approaching her slowly, and begin a normal conversation, so that she feels ok in your presence. But if she starts walking away, she's angry at you. Just try talking to her. What's the worst that could happen? Just say what you're feeling. If she says she needs time, give her time, say about 1 week, it would be enough. Just don't expect her to come running back to you, you have to face the worst, if that's the case. Don't ignore her though, that would be rude, even though she's ignoring you. I hope this helps. 
This sounds like the best advice to me.
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