Pages: 1 2  Next -- Posted by Gaelle at 10:21 am on Dec. 4, 2008 My friends and family tell me how beautiful I am...and I'm not fishing for compliments when I say that I don't believe them. I think they feel like it's an obligation to tell me. I sometimes make people compliments without meaning them! Just to avoid being rude. How about you? Are your compliments honest? For the guy, if you tell your girlfriend that she's beautiful...do you really mean it? Because I don't even believe him! -- Posted by Teenie1 at 10:22 am on Dec. 4, 2008 No I lie about compliments. -- Posted by steven7 at 10:22 am on Dec. 4, 2008 yes, i only complement peole wh desirve it, eole don't need to be walking around thinkin there hot when they are not -- Posted by The Patekip at 10:22 am on Dec. 4, 2008 Yeah, I mean them. Unless they're blatantly sarcastic. -- Posted by lovemetwicetoday at 10:23 am on Dec. 4, 2008 Yes my compliments are honest.  And I know exactly what you mean when you receive them, you tell them you don't believe them and then more than likely, they'll think you're fishing for even more compliments. -- Posted by Descartes at 10:23 am on Dec. 4, 2008 im always honest, and your very pretty by the way -- Posted by roryboy at 10:23 am on Dec. 4, 2008 I say yes, but there are times when you must lie a bit, to spare feelings. -- Posted by LudovicoTechnique at 10:23 am on Dec. 4, 2008 No. -- Posted by Manipulative Acid at 10:23 am on Dec. 4, 2008 It depends. If it's a crazy maniac I'm talking to, I tend to lie a bit. But normally, no. -- Posted by DirtyConspiracy at 10:24 am on Dec. 4, 2008 I always make compliments honest, unless I'm forced to make one. Such as if a chubby friend says "I'm so fat", I feel like I have to say something like "No you're not, you have a perfect figure". But most of the time I make honest compliments. -- Posted by Feel The High at 10:24 am on Dec. 4, 2008 Oh yes, I don't like to lie anyways. -- Posted by 0h h3ll n0 at 10:24 am on Dec. 4, 2008 No female. Usually I'm pretty honest but occasionally I will lie, if it makes someone feel better then its harmless... -- Posted by Gaelle at 10:24 am on Dec. 4, 2008 Quote: from rudecrudeswimingdud at 10:23 am on Dec. 4, 2008 im always honest, and your very pretty by the way I hope you know that I'm not the person in my display picture. -- Posted by LittleBombs at 10:25 am on Dec. 4, 2008 I do mean them, everyone is beautiful in some way or another. -- Posted by La Motta at 10:25 am on Dec. 4, 2008 Yeah, I only compliment if I mean it -- Posted by Gaelle at 10:26 am on Dec. 4, 2008 Quote: from LittleBombs at 10:25 am on Dec. 4, 2008 I do mean them, everyone is beautiful in some way or another. That's bullshit. Some people are extremely ugly. -- Posted by yellowsapphire at 10:26 am on Dec. 4, 2008 Yes I mean my compliments when I say them. If I say them to a girl mate, I mean them, say if her clothes were looking nice etc. I mean them when I say them to my boyfriend. And I also mean them when I say them to my family and boy mates. I mean them all the time. You just have learn to take compliments as they are   -- Posted by LittleBombs at 10:27 am on Dec. 4, 2008 Quote: from Gaelle at 10:26 am on Dec. 4, 2008 Quote: from LittleBombs at 10:25 am on Dec. 4, 2008 I do mean them, everyone is beautiful in some way or another. That's bullshit. Some people are extremely ugly. I don't mean just physically. Some people are beautiful in other ways, not just to look at. -- Posted by isobel at 10:27 am on Dec. 4, 2008 Not always. But I don't go all "OMG you're gorgeous" if the person in question isn't. I try to find something else on which to compliment. In your case though, I do think you're gorgeous. And so does your boyfriend, I'm sure. -- Posted by Points at 10:27 am on Dec. 4, 2008 I don't believe people when they tell me I'm pretty... My boyfriend says it but I feel like he's laughing inside; even if he's serious when saying it. >.< Mine are honest, most of the tiiime. Sometimes I've been with people and they've all complimented someone, I've not had the same opinion... but if I didn't compliment them it'd look odd/rude. So most of the time, they are honest. But you are pretty anyway. -- Posted by Points at 10:28 am on Dec. 4, 2008 Quote: from Gaelle at 10:26 am on Dec. 4, 2008 Quote: from LittleBombs at 10:25 am on Dec. 4, 2008 I do mean them, everyone is beautiful in some way or another. That's bullshit. Some people are extremely ugly. But they might have an attractive personality. -- Posted by Gaelle at 10:30 am on Dec. 4, 2008 Quote: from Points at 10:28 am on Dec. 4, 2008 Quote: from Gaelle at 10:26 am on Dec. 4, 2008 Quote: from LittleBombs at 10:25 am on Dec. 4, 2008 I do mean them, everyone is beautiful in some way or another.    That's bullshit. Some people are extremely ugly. But they might have an attractive personality. And you'll honestly say, "Oh boy, your personality is quite the looker..." -- Posted by Points at 10:33 am on Dec. 4, 2008 Quote: from Gaelle at 10:30 am on Dec. 4, 2008 Quote: from Points at 10:28 am on Dec. 4, 2008 Quote: from Gaelle at 10:26 am on Dec. 4, 2008 Quote: from LittleBombs at 10:25 am on Dec. 4, 2008 I do mean them, everyone is beautiful in some way or another.   That's bullshit. Some people are extremely ugly. But they might have an attractive personality. And you'll honestly say, "Oh boy, your personality is quite the looker..."   No. I'm not talking about judging on someone's looks. I'm talking about when you get to know them and they actually are a nice person and have a nice personality. -- Posted by pixiex at 10:33 am on Dec. 4, 2008 I'm one of those brutally honest people, so when I compliment someone, I mean it. -- Posted by AmazingRed at 10:41 am on Dec. 4, 2008 Mostly yeah, although sometimes I do say things to make people feel better about themselves. -- Posted by Gaelle at 10:46 am on Dec. 4, 2008 Quote: from AmazingRed at 10:41 am on Dec. 4, 2008 Mostly yeah, although sometimes I do say things to make people feel better about themselves. This makes every compliment you've ever paid me fall through. -- Posted by AmazingRed at 10:54 am on Dec. 4, 2008 Quote: from Gaelle at 6:46 pm on Dec. 4, 2008 Quote: from AmazingRed at 10:41 am on Dec. 4, 2008 Mostly yeah, although sometimes I do say things to make people feel better about themselves. This makes every compliment you've ever paid me fall through.     No, they were genuine. I'm honest on the net. -- Posted by Gaelle at 10:55 am on Dec. 4, 2008 Quote: from AmazingRed at 10:54 am on Dec. 4, 2008 Quote: from Gaelle at 6:46 pm on Dec. 4, 2008 Quote: from AmazingRed at 10:41 am on Dec. 4, 2008 Mostly yeah, although sometimes I do say things to make people feel better about themselves.    This makes every compliment you've ever paid me fall through.   No, they were genuine. I'm honest on the net. You say that now! -- Posted by AmazingRed at 11:08 am on Dec. 4, 2008 Quote: from AmazingRed at 6:54 pm on Dec. 4, 2008 Quote: from Gaelle at 6:46 pm on Dec. 4, 2008 Quote: from AmazingRed at 10:41 am on Dec. 4, 2008 Mostly yeah, although sometimes I do say things to make people feel better about themselves.    This makes every compliment you've ever paid me fall through.   No, they were genuine. I'm honest on the net. -- Posted by nik1 at 11:20 am on Dec. 4, 2008 I try to find something good about everyone regardless if they have natural beauty or not.  If someone is wearing a new sweater I tell them how nice it is.  If their hair looks good, I tell them.  If they do something exceptional, I tell them.  When I do this I am not lying. My gf is the most beautiful person I have ever seen in my life and I tell her often.  However I wouldn't have to say a thing because she tells me she sees it in my eyes.  I adore her! Pages: 1 2  Next