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-- Posted by ps2grl37 at 11:06 am on Dec. 4, 2008

i broke up with my boyfriend because he is a liar and a jerk and now he wants me back idk what to do i love him so much i really dont want to let go but i dont wanna get hurt again


-- Posted by Teenie1 at 11:07 am on Dec. 4, 2008

Ditto, Split up with mine yesterday.


-- Posted by princess timz at 11:08 am on Dec. 4, 2008

Think what if he hurts you again? What life is like when you don't have a boyfriend around.


-- Posted by stepup029 at 11:11 am on Dec. 4, 2008

well if u love him then go out wit him but set up some rules  so that u do't get hurt and that way u will still be wit him


-- Posted by Descartes at 11:11 am on Dec. 4, 2008

people dont change, just the lies they tell.


-- Posted by ps2grl37 at 11:16 am on Dec. 4, 2008

Quote: from rudecrudeswimingdud at 11:11 am on Dec. 4, 2008


people dont change, just the lies they tell.

i like that.


-- Posted by Crackbuddy at 11:17 am on Dec. 4, 2008

Quote: from rudecrudeswimingdud at 11:11 am on Dec. 4, 2008


people dont change, just the lies they tell.


ooooooooooo i've never heard that one.
its so true, i'm proof :(


-- Posted by EyeoftheBeholder at 1:31 pm on Dec. 4, 2008

Do you realllllly love him? Or do you miss the routine of having a boyfriend?


-- Posted by Autumndaze at 1:41 pm on Dec. 4, 2008

Think about your future. You've already said it; he's a liar and a jerk. Why go back to that when you could have someone who's loyal and a sweetheart?  Don't be one of those people who go back to bad relationships that they know won't be that great but still choose to do it because they claim that they're unable to let go of what they built up. Trust me, I know how hard it may be but when something is dreadful, you may not let go of it as fast but you ultimately will let go.

Don't put yourself in that position. Don't think twice about things like this. You know he's no good, why go back to something that's horrible. He could be twice as bad as he was before, you never know. It's not even worth taking the risk.

Think about it.

Good luck.


-- Posted by kaylar28 at 1:58 pm on Dec. 4, 2008

i know its hard
but walking away will be best

i went through the same thing
and im happier then ever
it takes time. but it gets better


-- Posted by Bagheera at 2:12 pm on Dec. 4, 2008

I think you've made it pretty clear that this guy is not what's best for you, in fact he's less, he has a negative impact upon you and your day to day life. If you can find one good reason why that should be ignored, a truly good reason, then you should consider it, but you haven't shown any indication of it being even worth the time of day for you. Granted, people do make mistakes. They do hurt others by mistake, and want a chance to make it up to them.

But you're really the only person who can decide whether his indiscretion was a one off mistake, or whether it's just typical, exactly the kind of guy that he is. You don't deserve to open yourself up to the chance of being hurt again. Don't take that risk.

PM me if you need to.


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