-- Posted by Anonymous at 12:09 pm on Dec. 4, 2008 Okay well I have a few.. issues that I want to sort out but I don't know how to. Firstly, I get very jealous over the slightest things, and that tends to cause me to fall out with people etc. Even if a guy I like talks to one of my friends, i'll get really annoyed and jealous. And I really want to know how to get over my jealous-ness. Secondly, I tend to get attatched to people easily. Like, if a guy shows the slightest bit of interest, whether it's just friendly interest or more, I get really attatched and find it hard to let go. And that's not good.. Any tips on how to get over that too? -- Posted by Descartes at 12:10 pm on Dec. 4, 2008 avoid infactuation. and its ok to be jealous. as long as you keep it to yourself -- Posted by Krebons at 12:11 pm on Dec. 4, 2008 Yeah, i suffer from infactuation too... -- Posted by XxGoredollxX21 at 12:32 pm on Dec. 4, 2008 i am the exact same way. just so you know you arent the only one. Things that I do is just remember that my boyfriend has friends too and just because he talks to them it doesnt mean he likes them. about the getting attached thing..im definitely exactly like that. too much. even if i dont mean to. its hard...i udnerstand though. i just dont know what to do about it. sorry -- Posted by Barnhopper at 11:02 am on Dec. 5, 2008 Well, the fact that you reconise your jealousy as a problem means half the battle is won already. Just try to relax a bit more and make a concious effort not to jump to conclusions about situations.