-- Posted by RayGurl021708 at 2:23 pm on Dec. 4, 2008 What to do what to do? Ok, icky situation...I've been with a guy now for almost 10 months, I'm happy-but to a point. Not to long ago I was in a bad relationship and the guy always cheated on me, but we've been done for a little while now. He treated me like shit, so I've never had much confidence, but my boyfriend now treats me so good when we're alone. He tells me how sexy I am, and just puts his hands all over me. I love being wanted like that. It's not always to get sex though if that's what your thinking. Anyways, the thing is, I dont want to sound like a gold digger, but I love children. All I want is to have a gorgeous child one day. Well my boyfriend doesn't have a job and cant get one...long story....so I don't want to have to suffer my whole life tryna stuggle and get by ya know? But I don't want a relationship only based on that, but we have a few other issues as well. Well my problem is I like a guy in another state. Very much.....I also Love my boyfriend. Then there's another guy that might be moving by me that I had really strong feelings for and I still kinda like him. So wat do i do? stay with my man? or maybe get with the guy that might be movin by me? or try with the out of state?   sry this is long, i just am really confused -- Posted by the real anti christ at 2:25 pm on Dec. 4, 2008 Neither. Obviously your boyfriend isn't right for you but who said you have to be with one or the other? If you are just in these relationships becasue you can't be single you will never find the right guy. -- Posted by germany07 at 2:25 pm on Dec. 4, 2008 best thing to do is tell ur guy that u he's needs to sort him self out for u two too last, If he doesn't change he's boyish ways then its time for u two move on missy -- Posted by RayGurl021708 at 2:30 pm on Dec. 4, 2008 thats were i said it get comlicated, it's not him being childish, well sometimes he is, but that's not wat is on my mind. he CANT get a job. i'll leave it at that, but there's a good reason for it. i jsut dont' wnt to be struggling to raise my child with absolutly no money for the rest of my life. and i CAN be single. it's just a lot of my past seems to hang around. -- Posted by trinity fosho at 2:31 pm on Dec. 4, 2008 Quote: from the real anti christ at 2:25 pm on Dec. 4, 2008 Neither. Obviously your boyfriend isn't right for you but who said you have to be with one or the other? If you are just in these relationships becasue you can't be single you will never find the right guy. This.