-- Posted by rock85cool at 8:39 am on Dec. 5, 2008 I am 120% for condoms every time I have sex even getting into relationships. Although I have been in a relationship recently I find some girls get annoyed when I refuse advancement if I don't have a condom especially if we had sex prior but no condom, no sex. What is the view on this from LW members perspective? -- Posted by tick at 8:41 am on Dec. 5, 2008 Intelligent man. -- Posted by Jaems at 8:41 am on Dec. 5, 2008 Better to be safe than sorry. Least you won't end up with random babies. -- Posted by roflfuckyou at 8:41 am on Dec. 5, 2008 i think that is very responsible of you. what if the girl were on the pill? -- Posted by isobel at 8:42 am on Dec. 5, 2008 I do not enjoy sex with condoms. -- Posted by Kankalicious at 8:42 am on Dec. 5, 2008 I used to be the same. Tis a good thing. But after 3 years with the same guy, we're far more lax. But we're old enough to deal with the possible consequences, plus I'm on the pill. -- Posted by Meep123 at 8:49 am on Dec. 5, 2008 If she gets so angry tell her to take the damn pill. -- Posted by Spice at 8:50 am on Dec. 5, 2008 I prefer without. I have the implant =] Once he's had an STD test. I'll have one if he asks. -- Posted by crystal 81308 at 8:52 am on Dec. 5, 2008 smart[: -- Posted by cherryD at 8:53 am on Dec. 5, 2008 Why would they get angry? But imagine a guy sitting there, tight-lipped, hand over his crouch, shaking his head and going, "No condom. No condom." -- Posted by abra cadabra at 9:04 am on Dec. 5, 2008 My boyfriend and I don't use condoms, but i'm on the pill so personally we're fine with it. There's always a chance of pregnancy no matter what contraception you use, but I'd only use a condom if i weren't in a relationship because lets face it's exceptionally better without condoms, no matter who you're with. Providing you're using something else obviously! -- Posted by txbball08 at 9:13 am on Dec. 5, 2008 My girl and I are in an on-again off-again long term relationship.  We're both clean and disease free.  She usually uses  the pill, so I don't usually use a condom. But, if she's not on it, then I use one.  It doesn't really matter to me if I use one or not, as long as there's some sort of protection being used. Now if it's with a girl that I'm not in a serious relationship with, then I always wear a condom. -- Posted by GEEraffBby at 9:22 am on Dec. 5, 2008 Don't be silly, wrap your wily! [: -- Posted by morrisonsMYmuse at 10:49 am on Dec. 5, 2008 i've only ever been in one relationship where sex was even an issue.. and we used condoms every single time for the first year and a half. after that.. we were engaged, and both wanted to have children.. so if it happened, it happened. we never got pregnant.. thank god.. now that that relationship is over, i don't plan on having sex again until i'm married... so condoms won't be an issue there either. -- Posted by rockinralfman at 11:38 am on Dec. 5, 2008 i think condoms is the way to go but i always find myself never using em -- Posted by EyelashWishes at 3:44 pm on Dec. 5, 2008 i'm on the depo injection, so i dont need condoms for bc. however, before ditching the condom with a new guy, i do insist to make sure we are both are clean from stis. otherwise its not worth the risk really -- Posted by islandgirl at 9:04 pm on Dec. 5, 2008 I think you're smart. I can only see that being weird if you had previously been having unprotected sex and then suddenly wanted to use condoms (with the same person).   -- Posted by lucky015 at 4:05 am on Dec. 6, 2008 All depends on trust and things like that, Generally i hate condoms because they take away some of the feeling of sex, In the end if i trust her then its all up to her, But then again, Im the sorta guy that would stick round if anything happened... -- Posted by wallarookiller at 10:25 am on Dec. 8, 2008 I always use a condom I don't care what the girl says. The last thin I need is a baybe or some wierd std -- Posted by tearsinheaven at 8:54 pm on Dec. 8, 2008 both me and my partner lost our virginities to each other, so disease was never an issue. i'm also on the pill. but we still use a condom every time. i simply cannot get pregnant right now - i'm in school, he's just starting his career, and we're not in a situation where we can look after a child. -- Posted by TrinityJ at 12:05 pm on Dec. 9, 2008 condoms for life..its not jst about babies, STDs are dirty.