-- Posted by Anonymous at 8:40 am on Dec. 7, 2008 Okay so my cousin is the only person who knows about my e.d i have anorexic behaviours and bulimic behaviours im really really struggling with it at the moment and i wanna ask my cousin for help... im worried how to go about this though, i don't wanna seem like im making my self have my e.d could someone please think of what i could say other than "im struggling" im also struggling with depression because of this. maybe someone could add him on msn for me and tell him im going through a rough patch at the moment... but not tell him i told you to say. I dunno :( HELP -- Posted by Natsy at 8:41 am on Dec. 7, 2008 i could do that if you want but... it would be a bit weird, wouldn't it? xx -- Posted by rainey at 8:48 am on Dec. 7, 2008 Just tell him the truth. Tell him that you need a little support from somebody and if he cares about you, which he sounds like he does, he'll be happy to help you. -- Posted by marmalade at 12:43 pm on Dec. 7, 2008 I think you should be the one talking to him about it. I know from experience that it is very hard to do, but it's part of recovery asking for help. Pm me if you want some ideas or any other help =]