-- Posted by pumpkin475 at 6:01 pm on Dec. 9, 2008 i find that it's easier to be friends with a guy if he has a gf. cus i am engaged. dont wanna be with anyone else i'm so sick of becoming friends with a guy and then he eventually stops talking to me and hanging out with me as much cus he realizes that me and my significant other are serious and are not going to split. gahhhh! its like most of them dont find any reason to be friends with a girl unless they have potential to date them. so flippin annoying and the thing that sucks the most is that they are really cool friends and then u get a sistely-brotherly attatchment to them then they just stop talking to u and crap and u find out from other ppl the reason why. so i guess from now on i'm gonna try really hard to befriend guys with girlfriends. grrrrrr ya know what i mean, girls? and guys, i know not all of u are like this. i'm just speaking of the many that are -- Posted by honeybee3333 at 6:03 pm on Dec. 9, 2008 heres your problem: If there is a chance you'll split, you'll like that guy. and he'll be in the same situation as you -- Posted by beingme at 6:04 pm on Dec. 9, 2008 yes, but then, them girlfriends of theirs, start getting jealous and then the guy stops talkin to ya.. so i dont know, i think i'd try to find a guy with no girlfriend and is with no intention for dates. ;) -- Posted by pumpkin475 at 6:05 pm on Dec. 9, 2008 Quote: from honeybee3333 at 6:03 pm on Dec. 9, 2008 heres your problem: If there is a chance you'll split, you'll like that guy. and he'll be in the same situation as you wait...wuh? -- Posted by LeanneS at 6:06 pm on Dec. 9, 2008 i do know what you mean, kind of. But im the opposite. I used to have a lot of close guy friends, but as soon as they got girlfriends, they just suddenly felt awkward hanging out  with me because i wasnt their girlfriend. Not so much that they dont talk to me anymore. We still talk, just dont see eachother as much -- Posted by alastrxxna at 6:06 pm on Dec. 9, 2008 Get a gay friend, easy peasy. -- Posted by Antigen at 6:07 pm on Dec. 9, 2008 uhhh dont flirt? at all? -- Posted by RainbowKid92 at 6:13 pm on Dec. 9, 2008 that sucks. it really does i too, am tired of that. -- Posted by pumpkin475 at 6:26 pm on Dec. 9, 2008 Quote: from joziah at 6:07 pm on Dec. 9, 2008 uhhh dont flirt? at all? lucky for all the other guys: i dont flirt. so there is no reason why a guy should think that they could date me if i'm taken AND i dont flirt. some people dont look at the big picture. only what they want to see -- Posted by nullPointerException at 6:44 pm on Dec. 9, 2008 so thats why girls like gay guys so much.... this explains everything. -- Posted by pumpkin475 at 7:42 pm on Dec. 9, 2008 Quote: from nullPointerException at 6:44 pm on Dec. 9, 2008 so thats why girls like gay guys so much.... this explains everything. lol for real. i do love gay guys. i'm in theatre so i have tons of gay guy friends