-- Posted by Finger Paint at 8:28 pm on Dec. 9, 2008 A relative my age came and stayed at my house for a few months at the beginning of the year. We're really close... fast friends......... I was so sad when he left. While he was here he made friends with all of my friends and the lot of us got along great...... but now that he went back home, he's not replying to any of my messages on facebook.... but he's replying to all of my friends messages... and I don't know why. And for some reason he's not approving my friend request on skype. :'( -- Posted by aleiram51 at 8:39 pm on Dec. 9, 2008 maybe he feels like you're obsessing over him?? wait for him to message you and don't send anymore requests or messages -- Posted by Helios at 9:28 pm on Dec. 9, 2008 maybe he misses you too much and needs time to get used to not being around him...there is also the possibility that he hasnt received your messages.