-- Posted by Anonymous at 12:46 pm on Dec. 11, 2008 This was in dtrm but they failed me. I value your input more than any other forum, so I ask you here to help me. This is not a support topic, because I don't need support, so feel free to 'not support', this is only anonymous because while neither my best friend or brother post here, they both know I am a male moderator here. My brother has been dating a girl named Sarah for the past few years. They were in love, they were going to get married, they were soulmates. He was her first boyfriend, she was his first girlfriend. They went through a lot together. My brother is an attractive guy, and like me, gets hit on a lot. This caused strain in the relationship despite him being completely loyal. She was stunningly hot, an eight or a nine. For perspective, on my scale, when Madonna was younger, she was a seven, possibly an eight. My brother joins the Marine Corps, my brother goes to bootcamp, having just broken up with her. He dumped her because he loved her, not to be a dick. He gets back, they get back together. He goes to Marine Combat Training, then to Florida and North Carolina for his MOS and A schools. He comes back. They eventually break up again. He's crushed. She starts to hang out with MY best friend. My best friend asks my brother if it's ok, explaining he has no plans of being anything but friends with her. My brother is secretly not ok with this, but tells him it's ok so as not to be an untrusting dick. She continues to lead my brother on, claiming the out reason they can't be together is the marines, but tells my best friend entirely different stories. In other words lying to both of them to lead them both on, so that she has a safety net either way. This bitch. She tells my best friend that it's completely over, all the while leading my brother on and giving him sexual favors, blowjobs, intercourse, what have you. He knows she's hanging out with my best friend, and it still bothers him. Fast forward to a few weeks before thanksgiving. My best friends birthday, we go to a theme park halloween thing, me, my best friend, Sarah, but not my brother. Nothing happens. By this time though she already told My best friend she liked him and he turned her down, telling her she's more like a little sister to him, and that he can't because it would hurt my brother. Thanksgiving comes, my best friends at my house (I'm not because I'm in Virginia), after everyone but my brother and friend are smashed drunk and passed out, my brother, confronts my friend and explains his feelings and that he tried to kiss her the other night, and she said "I can't" and thatvhe knows shed only do that if there was another guy. He says there isn't anything going on, but my best friend is REAL drunk and he starts to get mad because my brother is grilling him. My brother is obviously only grilling him because he's so incredibly heart broken, considering our history with that friend, it had to be hard. My friend gets angry and says "Well what would you do about it if I was!" in anger and my brother tells him he'd punch him in the face and never speak to him again. My best friend could beat my brother up really badly. Instead he says nothing, but walks out really angry and kicks my neighbors mailbox, destroying it. My brother comes out theirs feeling like shit, and they talk drunk as shit and end up laying on the sidewalk staring at the stars. My brother won't talk about it, I know this only because my best friend told me everything, feeling bad himself. My best friend is like family, he's like an older brother to me. My little brother is my brother, and I'd do anything in the world for him. But what's the right thing to do? How do I fix this? It's driving me nuts, I hate that bitch Sarah for being a dishonest misleading slut at the expense of my brothers feelings and the fact she goes for MY best friend, REALLY posses me off. She had to rebound on the person that, other than me, would hurt my brother the most. Especially because my best friend is a genius who is atheletic, can sing opera and rap, is multilingual, atheletic and very strong, a martial artist (varieties of sambo and kempo), and in general irresistable to women, so this would obviously trigger insecurities in my brother, even if he's rejecting her, because what will hurt him the most is the fact that she likes my best friend, REGARDLESS of if he accepts her advances. FUCK -- Posted by Anonymous at 12:47 pm on Dec. 11, 2008 BTW Sarah is obviously not her real name. -- Posted by StopXXwatch at 12:49 pm on Dec. 11, 2008 I amnot reading all of that. lol -- Posted by horseeyesss at 12:50 pm on Dec. 11, 2008 TOP SLAG - get your boyz on her -- Posted by Poisonetta at 12:50 pm on Dec. 11, 2008 posses? Its pisses that your trying to spell right? But that does suck...Sorry. -- Posted by Anonymous at 12:52 pm on Dec. 11, 2008 Quote: from Poisonetta at 12:50 pm on Dec. 11, 2008 posses? Its pisses that your trying to spell right? But that does suck...Sorry. My phone auto corrects words to what it thinks I am trying to spell and for some reason it corrects profane words that I spell correctly to strange non profane words. Yes. It pisses me off. Better? -- Posted by Anonymous at 1:03 pm on Dec. 11, 2008 I had faith in you dtrm. Don't prove the fags on the intellectual forum right. -- Posted by Poisonetta at 1:15 pm on Dec. 11, 2008 Quote: from Anonymous at 12:52 pm on Dec. 11, 2008 Quote: from Poisonetta at 12:50 pm on Dec. 11, 2008 posses? Its pisses that your trying to spell right?    But that does suck...Sorry. My phone auto corrects words to what it thinks I am trying to spell and for some reason it corrects profane words that I spell correctly to strange non profane words. Yes. It pisses me off. Better? Ha Ha I am sorry. That sucks about your phone correcting profane words.