-- Posted by meow666 at 7:05 pm on Dec. 12, 2008 right, not sure where to start... so i got talking to a girl i used to go to school with on myspace, then on msn... one of my friends noticed i was talking to her and decided to try setting us up together, by inviting her out with us when we went to get high...her being invited out became a regular thing... eventually, i ended up getting with her a bit, but never really felt like trying to go any further with her, since i didn't feel i liked her enough, and she made it really clear that she couldn't go any further with anyone that she wasn't actually going out with, and since i don't do 'going out with' people, i though fuck it, and didn't persue the relationship anymore... well recently she's been really pissy with me(we remained descent friends when we decided to not go further) for seemingly no reason, and i found out today that she's got another of my friends to go out with her, one of which i see at least once every few days... a female friend of mine then had a go at me and told me i should have listened to her in the first place since she knew the first girl was a really deceitful bitch and goes about trying to get with every guy in a group of friends, and eventually breaking them all up...but leaving herself in the end back at square one: looking for a new group of friends...which isn't really all that beneficial to herself really... but yeah...me and this girl that is genuinely my friend need to set about getting rid of this leech, before she fucks up the relationship i have with my group of friends, since really, she doesn't have the right to invite herself into it and then try to trash it... So how do i go about doing this without it beign obvious that i'm trying to get rid of her, and stop it backfiring, leaving me with less friends than i started? -- Posted by QueenOfGeeks at 7:12 pm on Dec. 12, 2008 Oh, that's tough. Confront her about it. That's probably your safest move, then from there, try discreetly to reveal her for what she is. -- Posted by meow666 at 7:14 pm on Dec. 12, 2008 what could i say to her other than 'stay the fuck away from my friends'? but yeah, the plan thus far is for me and my female friend to reveal her for the dickhead she is... -- Posted by Catacomb at 5:08 am on Dec. 14, 2008 thats exactly what you should say "stay away from my friends you fuck face" -- Posted by meow666 at 2:04 pm on Dec. 14, 2008 Quote: from Catacomb at 5:08 am on Dec. 14, 2008 thats exactly what you should say "stay away from my friends you fuck face" I'd really love to do that, but she'd tell my friends, and make it look like i was the arsehole, and then my friends would think she's the victim...