-- Posted by TigressaLynnMae at 8:23 pm on Dec. 12, 2008 Is this normal? I have a friend with benefits, so to say, but anytime we're drunk/drinking, he can't get a hard on. After a while, he gets hard, but that's after coaxing of sorts. -- Posted by Dass at 8:24 pm on Dec. 12, 2008 are you hot? -- Posted by txbball08 at 8:24 pm on Dec. 12, 2008 Yeah, it's more difficult to get one while you're drunk, and more difficult to maintain it too.  but, the upside is that you last longer in bed. -- Posted by KADEBBY at 8:25 pm on Dec. 12, 2008 hmm idk im a girl but my friend with benefits gets real hyped up when hes drunk or high i guess everyone is different -- Posted by TigressaLynnMae at 8:26 pm on Dec. 12, 2008 Quote: from Dass at 11:24 pm on Dec. 12, 2008 are you hot? That's an irrelevant question. Hard ones can be reached, looking at a tree. You can't control your erections. Yeah, it's more difficult to get one while you're drunk, and more difficult to maintain it too.  but, the upside is that you last longer in bed. I'm not looking for a lay. Play, merely. -- Posted by Remy LeBeau 2007 at 8:28 pm on Dec. 12, 2008 most guys have this problem -- Posted by tearsinheaven at 8:29 pm on Dec. 12, 2008 i think for guys, it's either they're super horny when drunk, or just can't get it up. either extreme, and depends on the guy. -- Posted by Dass at 8:31 pm on Dec. 12, 2008 trees? uncontrollable? youre being rediculous... but if youre fat and agly that would explain his problem -- Posted by amazinglover at 8:44 pm on Dec. 12, 2008 yes, sometimes it is difficult after drinking -- Posted by TigressaLynnMae at 8:42 am on Dec. 13, 2008 trees? uncontrollable? youre being rediculous... but if youre fat and agly that would explain his problem[/quote\ And you're being daft. You can't think, "I want an erection"/"I don't want an erection". Erections are not something you can bring forth, upon yourself, or stop yourself from doing. You're a male. You should know this. Unless your balls have yet to drop, then I suggest you stop talking, as if you have knowledge on something you clearly do not know. -- Posted by biflexible at 8:59 am on Dec. 13, 2008 Yea the catch is if you drink you get much more horny (for most males) but you also have problems maintaining an erection (also for most males). Though, as another poster said, alcohol will delay ejaculation so there's an additional plus. A nice medium works great for most. -- Posted by for the lulz at 2:46 pm on May 4, 2009 Quote: from TigressaLynnMae at 8:42 am on Dec. 13, 2008 trees? uncontrollable? youre being rediculous... but if youre fat and agly that would explain his problem[/quote\ And you're being daft. You can't think, "I want an erection"/"I don't want an erection". Erections are not something you can bring forth, upon yourself, or stop yourself from doing. You're a male. You should know this. Unless your balls have yet to drop, then I suggest you stop talking, as if you have knowledge on something you clearly do not know. It has nothing to do with willing yourself to get an erection. It's a natural response to a stimulus. The more attractive the woman, the more exciting the stimulus. Period. -- Posted by TigressaLynnMae at 3:18 pm on May 10, 2009 The more attractive the woman, the more exciting the stimulus. Period. And what if the stimulus is something you're not quite used to being stimulated by? I mean, I have a gay friend, and he pops one sometimes around me, but it certainly has nothing to do with how attractive he thinks I am/how attractive I am.