-- Posted by kupal vibes at 8:21 pm on Dec. 14, 2008 i can't trust people to enable me to have a deep and close relationship/friendship. no matter how hard i try, the thought of being rejected in the future is dominant in my mind. usually i leave them before they leave me, just to avoid the rejection i'm very paranoid about. -- Posted by forfallonyy at 8:22 pm on Dec. 14, 2008 then stopp -- Posted by maceyface at 8:23 pm on Dec. 14, 2008 sure sure. story of everyone's life. -- Posted by Renea1993 at 8:24 pm on Dec. 14, 2008 I'd tell you to talk to a counselor, but that would be too hypocritical, so I guess you should always just know that confidence is harder to reject than shyness. Saying that still makes me a hypocrite but eh, w/e. -- Posted by HeadUpInTheClouds at 8:25 pm on Dec. 14, 2008 a lot of people feel that way -- Posted by kupal vibes at 8:27 pm on Dec. 14, 2008 i didn't know this was too cliche rofl -- Posted by undercoverchic at 9:03 pm on Dec. 14, 2008 I keep people distant too. I don't really know what to tell you besides keep trying. For me, it's hard to see the good in people when all I can see is the bad. This type of thing is different for everyone.