-- Posted by gretchx3 at 11:50 pm on Dec. 16, 2008 Im having a debate with a guy about what is worse. Rape or murder.. Explain your choice please? -- Posted by imSOFAKINGrad at 11:51 pm on Dec. 16, 2008 rape, cuz the person will never forget that traumatizing moment ever -- Posted by See Me Now at 11:51 pm on Dec. 16, 2008 Rape, because the victim will feel the effects longer- a murder victim is done and never has to face what happened to them again... a rape victim has to re-live it for the rest of their life. -- Posted by sMASH96 at 11:51 pm on Dec. 16, 2008 Rape because you have to live with it for as long as you live. -- Posted by spaceykayce at 11:51 pm on Dec. 16, 2008 I don't think you can really say. If you've been raped, of course you're going to say rape, if you've been personally affected by murder, then you're going to say murder. It's a hard one. -- Posted by imSOFAKINGrad at 11:53 pm on Dec. 16, 2008 Quote: from spaceykayce at 11:51 pm on Dec. 16, 2008 I don't think you can really say. If you've been raped, of course you're going to say rape, if you've been personally affected by murder, then you're going to say murder. It's a hard one. if you think about it, its common sense, or you have a general idea of which is worse -- Posted by iKnowUwantME at 11:54 pm on Dec. 16, 2008 murder -- Posted by 9 Volt at 11:55 pm on Dec. 16, 2008 Murder, because I believe in the afterlife and you may take that bad experience to the grave. -- Posted by FurryPanther at 11:55 pm on Dec. 16, 2008 Quote: from spaceykayce at 12:51 am on Dec. 17, 2008 I don't think you can really say. If you've been raped, of course you're going to say rape, if you've been personally affected by murder, then you're going to say murder. It's a hard one. As a person that has intimately experienced both, I still go with rape. FP -- Posted by 00b3r tr011 at 11:55 pm on Dec. 16, 2008 Rape for all the right reasons. -- Posted by McAdorable at 11:56 pm on Dec. 16, 2008 murder...it's ending a life...forever..that person is gone from their family and everything..rape is bad but...eh...murder..thats horrible. -- Posted by stratocaster69 at 11:58 pm on Dec. 16, 2008 murder... its taking a life!!..... what sort of a question is that -- Posted by imSOFAKINGrad at 11:58 pm on Dec. 16, 2008 Quote: from McAdorable at 11:56 pm on Dec. 16, 2008 murder...it's ending a life...forever..that person is gone from their family and everything..rape is bad but...eh...murder..thats horrible. so you'd rather be traumatized, waking up screaming, having constant nightmares, night after night, rather than taking a life? id rape is alot worse, cuz it could lead to endless outcomes in the end -- Posted by J U S T at 12:01 am on Dec. 17, 2008 Rape. The trauma (mental and physical) of the event usually lives with women for a very long time, and makes them wish they were dead. A very very high number of rape victims take their own lives. -- Posted by FurryPanther at 12:02 am on Dec. 17, 2008 Quote: from JustKissedLilly at 1:01 am on Dec. 17, 2008 Rape. The trauma (mental and physical) of the event usually lives with women for a very long time, and makes them wish they were dead. A very very high number of rape victims take their own lives. 'lives with victims'* FP -- Posted by WickedWiccan at 12:06 am on Dec. 17, 2008 Murder. -- Posted by gief at 12:08 am on Dec. 17, 2008 murder -- Posted by Uhhello at 11:25 am on Dec. 17, 2008 Quote: from McAdorable at 11:56 pm on Dec. 16, 2008 murder...it's ending a life...forever..that person is gone from their family and everything..rape is bad but...eh...murder..thats horrible. Yeah but your dead...you haven't got to live with that traumatising memory you probally wont get over for at least a decade... You'll live it every night with nightmares. Like your being raped every night again and again. Why do you think a good few people kill themselves after rape or try to? -- Posted by Daleacus at 3:18 pm on Dec. 17, 2008 I say murder is worse as you don't have the opportunity to recover from death. Also, being dead leaves no room for revenge which I would desire should someone subject me to such a cruel thing. -- Posted by Mediocre at 3:43 pm on Dec. 17, 2008 Quote: from kmksrhdgaf420 at 11:58 pm on Dec. 16, 2008 Quote: from McAdorable at 11:56 pm on Dec. 16, 2008 murder...it's ending a life...forever..that person is gone from their family and everything..rape is bad but...eh...murder..thats horrible. so you'd rather be traumatized, waking up screaming, having constant nightmares, night after night, rather than taking a life? I've been raped, and I can't relate to that at all. Nor is there any evidence to suggest that most rape victims can. -- Posted by Mediocre at 3:45 pm on Dec. 17, 2008 Quote: from JustKissedLilly at 12:01 am on Dec. 17, 2008 with women Rape is not sex-specific. A very very high number of rape victims take their own lives. Stop lying. -- Posted by pinkertongrass at 4:26 pm on Dec. 17, 2008 seriously dumb question which would you rather happen? You to die? I don't think so. -- Posted by amiee at 5:01 am on Dec. 18, 2008 This is a pretty horrible question. I'd rather be alive than dead and having experienced rape I can assure you that life goes on. I choose life.   -- Posted by Bud2400 at 5:24 am on Dec. 18, 2008 I'd consider murder worse than rape for the simple fact that there is no chance of recovery in death, nor is there any hope left for you for your loved ones. Obviously this doesn't make rape any better and nobody should ever take it that way.  Rape is a very serious matter, but unlike murder, rape is never final. -- Posted by biflexible at 5:57 am on Dec. 18, 2008 In my opinion it has to be murder. As Bud2400 said, murder is final. -- Posted by GeneCosta at 7:27 am on Dec. 18, 2008 Murder.