-- Posted by sweetness14 at 7:39 am on Dec. 17, 2008 is it a bad thing to like pretend ur dating someone, even thou u both kno ur not? like is it okay to make out and flirt, and maybe have sex when u kno ur not dating? -- Posted by hi sarah at 7:45 am on Dec. 17, 2008 No it isn't bad to have sex or flirt with someone you aren't dating. It's quite normal, and common. -- Posted by dreamweaver at 11:44 pm on Dec. 17, 2008 But it's best to listen to your gut. You should always consider both the pros and cons of such a thing though.