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-- Posted by Anonymous at 12:24 pm on Dec. 20, 2008

Well basically here's my problem, i like 3 guys. im a 15 yr old female.
1, ive known longest, he's 18, i told him i like him and he said we'll see what happens.
2, ive known second longest, also 18. a month-or-so ago he told me he liked me, and asked me out,i said no. he now seems to have gone off me. :( im not actually attracted to him, but i snogged him at a party.
and 3, i met to day, he's 14.  i think he likes me, he was laying on me(like relaxing type laying) and i see him all the time.

Who should i choose, i'm a virgin if that makes a diffrence, and how should I approach them?
thanks.


-- Posted by Natsy at 12:24 pm on Dec. 20, 2008

the first...


-- Posted by Z o E at 12:25 pm on Dec. 20, 2008

go for the first one.


-- Posted by BFMV rock at 12:26 pm on Dec. 20, 2008

the 1st guy


-- Posted by lovegirl1 at 12:26 pm on Dec. 20, 2008

1 or 2. i dont know what snogged means but i like 2. 1 seems iffy.


-- Posted by LastOneCrying at 12:27 pm on Dec. 20, 2008

First.


-- Posted by zamrambo at 12:28 pm on Dec. 20, 2008

first.

i don't understand how you can see 3 all the time seeing as you just met him today...


-- Posted by Light Assassin at 12:32 pm on Dec. 20, 2008

how old are you?


-- Posted by blacklist at 12:32 pm on Dec. 20, 2008

Uno.

-b


-- Posted by ShiShiHeartbreaker at 12:32 pm on Dec. 20, 2008

Yeah same, how can you see 3 all the time if you just met him. And why was he lying on you

I don't really think you should choose any of them, I don't think you like any of them enough to be in a relationship with them

Whats wrong with staying single? At least until you like one of them a lot more.

But if you MUST....Number 1 sounds the most decent


-- Posted by Anonymous at 12:33 pm on Dec. 20, 2008

Quote: from noahjk at 12:32 pm on Dec. 20, 2008


how old are you?


i did say 15 :)


-- Posted by spacemac at 12:37 pm on Dec. 20, 2008

i read some time ago that snogged usualled referred to kiss, anyways, go with whoever you feel most comfortable with, you'll learn as you move on.


-- Posted by Krebons at 12:48 pm on Dec. 20, 2008

Do with the one you feel most comfortable with, and becareful with older guys incase they want you to do anything you don;t want to


-- Posted by ArtFreak at 12:49 pm on Dec. 20, 2008

The first, because he's the only one you actually said you liked....


-- Posted by purplelove202 at 6:48 pm on Dec. 20, 2008

I'd say go for the THIRD guy.  The first one (in my opinion) said "We'll see what happens" as "We'll see if you give it up first" (he wants sex).

The third is as innocent as you (laying on someone is so sweet).  I would start your sexual experiences with someone that is more likely STD free. :)


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