-- Posted by iqgnos at 4:42 am on Dec. 22, 2008 Okay, i love this girl but we're not together because of religion. She's a christian and she said that her first criteria for a boyfriend must be a christian. im not. She's really nice and a pro-christian. I really love her. I've told her that i love her, and all she said was thank you. I asked her if we're possible once, she replied "do you know? impossible means i m possible, so anything is possible =)" This really sucks. I always get jealous when she's talking to other guys, really closely. She's oblivious that i always get jealous. My question - Is the reason why she didnt say no because she doesnt want to hurt me? Im really stressed out thinking about this relationship. Its been 2 years now and I've always try to be there for her. Please help me out. -- Posted by L0VESTONED at 4:44 am on Dec. 22, 2008 I told a guy once that I couldnt date him because of religion... but I lied. SO maybe shes lying. :D -- Posted by Faded Beauty Queen at 4:44 am on Dec. 22, 2008 If it's been two years and nothing's happened, my  thoughts are that nothing will ever happen. -- Posted by blufindr at 4:49 am on Dec. 22, 2008 Quote: from Faded Beauty Queen at 11:44 pm on Dec. 22, 2008 If it's been two years and nothing's happened, my thoughts are that nothing will ever happen. My first thoughts too. -- Posted by SpasticTurnip at 4:49 am on Dec. 22, 2008 dump her or she'll convert you -- Posted by iqgnos at 4:50 am on Dec. 22, 2008 im afraid so, i just hope that she can just tell me how she feels. should i just ask her? -- Posted by iqgnos at 4:50 am on Dec. 22, 2008 im thinking of converting too, but its not that easy isnt it? -- Posted by justclueless at 5:06 am on Dec. 22, 2008 you should ask her how she feels about u together.. 2 years of waiting r enough dont u think? and f religion is really the problem then this one is tough unless u convert -- Posted by psychoticboy at 5:06 am on Dec. 22, 2008 dude DO NOT CONVERT because you think you're in love. let me tell you something honestly. the girl is playing with you the only reason she brought up the christian thing is because alot of people wouldn't change their religion and knowing that shes trying to be smart and in a nice way she said "no" -- Posted by helloworld at 8:41 am on Dec. 22, 2008 Forget about her. If you keep focusing on her like that you will NEVER get her. You probably think she's the greatest girl on earth. Guess what? She isn't. Take her off that pedestal. There are plenty of better ones out there. She's nothing special. Its been 2 years now and I've always try to be there for her. That's your first mistake. Stop being there for her. Make her think you don't really care anymore (easiest way is to actually stop caring, but at least pretend if anything). im thinking of converting too, but its not that easy isnt it? That's major supplication. Absolutely do not do this. She will NOT respect you for that and it will not help you get her. im afraid so, i just hope that she can just tell me how she feels. should i just ask her? No. You've been waiting for f*cking TWO YEARS and you don't know how she feels? She is CLEARLY NOT INTERESTED. Don't debase yourself by asking her anything of the sort.