-- Posted by Cutiepootie at 4:45 pm on Dec. 23, 2008 My dad wants me to be with him on christmas eve night but i live with my mom now and it will be my first christmas morning with my mom. My dad is pissed off and begin hateful...What should i do?         -- Posted by KKKay at 4:45 pm on Dec. 23, 2008 Whatever you want to do. -- Posted by I like tuhtles at 4:45 pm on Dec. 23, 2008 Dance. -- Posted by ArrestedAndCharged at 4:45 pm on Dec. 23, 2008 Stay with your mom. -- Posted by SpasticTurnip at 4:45 pm on Dec. 23, 2008 seeing as he's 'your fucking dad', fuck him =] -- Posted by KayReu at 4:45 pm on Dec. 23, 2008 Stick to the plans you originally made. Explain to your dad, you cant make everyone happy. -- Posted by style is war at 4:45 pm on Dec. 23, 2008 Mom > Dad. Always -- Posted by EllaLovesYou at 4:46 pm on Dec. 23, 2008 BE FUCKING GRATEFUL YOU HAVE ONE FFS! -- Posted by McAdorable at 4:46 pm on Dec. 23, 2008 tell him no. plain and simple. i have found that it's the only way to get what you want when it comes to parents. -- Posted by akallen at 4:46 pm on Dec. 23, 2008 Quote: from style is war at 7:45 pm on Dec. 23, 2008 Mom > Dad. Always 'tis it. -- Posted by Megan7 at 4:47 pm on Dec. 23, 2008 Say that you will stay with your mom, unless if he man's up. -- Posted by sykexl at 4:47 pm on Dec. 23, 2008 Tell him to get the fuck over it. That and I fail to see how one has to do with the other. Why would you have to sleep over? Even if you did, why couldn't you leave early to go back with your mom to spend the rest of the morning and day? -- Posted by DemonicRainbows at 4:48 pm on Dec. 23, 2008 Tell him it's time to be a big boy now. -- Posted by Cutiepootie at 4:48 pm on Dec. 23, 2008 Quote: from sykexl at 4:47 pm on Dec. 23, 2008 Tell him to get the fuck over it.   That and I fail to see how one has to do with the other. Why would you have to sleep over? Even if you did, why couldn't you leave early to go back with your mom to spend the rest of the morning and day? I moved in with my mom in January and this is my first christmas here. -- Posted by BackPorch at 4:48 pm on Dec. 23, 2008 You tell them both you did not decide to get a divorce. They did. You can't be with both of them. They made the choice, so stop making you feel bad about it. -- Posted by Cutiepootie at 4:50 pm on Dec. 23, 2008 Quote: from BackPorch at 4:48 pm on Dec. 23, 2008 You tell them both you did not decide to get a divorce. They did. You can't be with both of them. They made the choice, so stop making you feel bad about it. GREAT ADVICE!!!!  Thanks -- Posted by sykexl at 4:50 pm on Dec. 23, 2008 Quote: from Cutiepootie at 4:48 pm on Dec. 23, 2008 Quote: from sykexl at 4:47 pm on Dec. 23, 2008 Tell him to get the fuck over it.  That and I fail to see how one has to do with the other. Why would you have to sleep over? Even if you did, why couldn't you leave early to go back with your mom to spend the rest of the morning and day? I moved in with my mom in January and this is my first christmas here. And what does that have to do with what I said? Again, how does spending Christmas eve with your father impose on spending the the next day with your mom? Unless they live more then 2 or 3 hours apart I fail to see how it would be a problem to do both. I'll take your lack of an answer as a sign that you simply don't want to spend time with your dad, which is fine, but no reason to avoid it. -- Posted by Cutiepootie at 4:51 pm on Dec. 23, 2008 Quote: from sykexl at 4:50 pm on Dec. 23, 2008 Quote: from Cutiepootie at 4:48 pm on Dec. 23, 2008 Quote: from sykexl at 4:47 pm on Dec. 23, 2008 Tell him to get the fuck over it.       That and I fail to see how one has to do with the other. Why would you have to sleep over? Even if you did, why couldn't you leave early to go back with your mom to spend the rest of the morning and day?    I moved in with my mom in January and this is my first christmas here. And what does that have to do with what I said? Again, how does spending Christmas eve with your father impose on spending the the next day with your mom? Unless they live more then 2 or 3 hours apart I fail to see how it would be a problem to do both. I'll take your lack of an answer as a sign that you simply don't want to spend time with your dad, which is fine, but no reason to avoid it. My mom wants me to spenmd christmas eve night here and my dad wants me to too. -- Posted by BackPorch at 4:52 pm on Dec. 23, 2008 Quote: from Cutiepootie at 4:50 pm on Dec. 23, 2008 Quote: from BackPorch at 4:48 pm on Dec. 23, 2008 You tell them both you did not decide to get a divorce. They did. You can't be with both of them. They made the choice, so stop making you feel bad about it.   GREAT ADVICE!!!! Thanks I have been in your exact position. =) -- Posted by sykexl at 4:53 pm on Dec. 23, 2008 Quote: from Cutiepootie at 4:51 pm on Dec. 23, 2008 Quote: from sykexl at 4:50 pm on Dec. 23, 2008 Quote: from Cutiepootie at 4:48 pm on Dec. 23, 2008 Quote: from sykexl at 4:47 pm on Dec. 23, 2008 Tell him to get the fuck over it.   That and I fail to see how one has to do with the other. Why would you have to sleep over? Even if you did, why couldn't you leave early to go back with your mom to spend the rest of the morning and day?   I moved in with my mom in January and this is my first christmas here.    And what does that have to do with what I said? Again, how does spending Christmas eve with your father impose on spending the the next day with your mom? Unless they live more then 2 or 3 hours apart I fail to see how it would be a problem to do both.    I'll take your lack of an answer as a sign that you simply don't want to spend time with your dad, which is fine, but no reason to avoid it.   My mom wants me to spenmd christmas eve night here and my dad wants me to too. And you said you want to spend christmas morning with your mom. Is it really too hard for you to spend the eve with the father and the next morning/day with your mom? What the fuck kind of ungrateful brat are you? -- Posted by bloodyXkisses at 4:55 pm on Dec. 23, 2008 Quote: from style is war at 6:45 pm on Dec. 23, 2008 Mom > Dad. Always Agreed. -- Posted by emoly pqausch at 4:58 pm on Dec. 23, 2008 ignore him. tell him to deal with it and you'll spend time with him later. -- Posted by Cutiepootie at 6:57 am on Dec. 24, 2008 Quote: from sykexl at 4:53 pm on Dec. 23, 2008 Quote: from Cutiepootie at 4:51 pm on Dec. 23, 2008 Quote: from sykexl at 4:50 pm on Dec. 23, 2008 Quote: from Cutiepootie at 4:48 pm on Dec. 23, 2008 Quote: from sykexl at 4:47 pm on Dec. 23, 2008 Tell him to get the fuck over it.          That and I fail to see how one has to do with the other. Why would you have to sleep over? Even if you did, why couldn't you leave early to go back with your mom to spend the rest of the morning and day?       I moved in with my mom in January and this is my first christmas here.   And what does that have to do with what I said? Again, how does spending Christmas eve with your father impose on spending the the next day with your mom? Unless they live more then 2 or 3 hours apart I fail to see how it would be a problem to do both.   I'll take your lack of an answer as a sign that you simply don't want to spend time with your dad, which is fine, but no reason to avoid it.      My mom wants me to spenmd christmas eve night here and my dad wants me to too. And you said you want to spend christmas morning with your mom. Is it really too hard for you to spend the eve with the father and the next morning/day with your mom? What the fuck kind of ungrateful brat are you? I SAID I WANT TO SPEND CHRISTMAS NIGHT WIHT MY MOM BUT MY DAD WANTS ME TO SPEND IT WITH HHIM. -- Posted by Incubusity at 11:05 am on Dec. 24, 2008 I'm sure you're dad feels neglected and perhaps jealous as well. Who can blame him? Look on his side, imagine spending Christmas Eve/Christmas without his daughter. Can you see how hurtful it may be? I think you should talk to him, even if he refuses to listen. Reassure him that you want to be there too, and that you love him as much as he loves you. I'm sure he will understand. -- Posted by TheAnswers at 4:12 pm on Dec. 24, 2008 its sad to see so many naive replies in this thread i hope you havnt taken them in the last one by backporch is the only decent reply. put yourself in your dads shoes, him and your mum obviously have issues and thats probably alot harder on him than he makes it out to be to you, so ease up on the guy a bit. if anything your mother is just as much to blame for you being in this position, having a kid she and your dad should put their differences aside and work out a solution for your sake. you should talk to them both about how you feel, as lame as that may sound it will make you feel better, and they should both be mature enough to put their differences to the side for once to work something out to benifit you.