-- Posted by Anonymous at 10:23 pm on Dec. 27, 2008 My period never showed so I went to rite aid to buy a test a week after, which just happened to be Christmas Eve... The test popped up immediately positive, like a slap in the face for even thinking it may be negative. So yeahh. I have yet to make a doctor's appointment, but I am scared shitless as well as my boyfriend. AND in June my best friend is having her wedding and I'll be six months along, not be able to fit into her dress she picked out and I have to dance with my ex who still likes me, because he is the groom's best man. GOOD TIMES! What a Christmas present... Oh, and my grandmother told my mother behind my back, that I am now living in sin since my boyfriend and I are not married and not thinking about that at this point in our relationship. And, she says "he took her virginity, now he's gonna leave her, because that's all men want and without that she is worth nothing to a man if they want marriage after he leaves her." Thanks Gram... =/ -Scared and Anxious and Sick to my stomach? -- Posted by Precarious at 10:24 pm on Dec. 27, 2008 its cool just think about what you're gonna do next. how old are you btw? -- Posted by Monroe at 10:25 pm on Dec. 27, 2008 You don't have to dance with your ex. I didn't dance with the best man, when I was the maid of honor. Just worry about being a good parent, and giving your child all he/she needs. Don't worry about the religion crap, or anything else. You'll be fine. -- Posted by MischaELLE at 10:25 pm on Dec. 27, 2008 im here if you want to talk :) it will be ok! -- Posted by BobbieMcMullan at 10:25 pm on Dec. 27, 2008 I'm sorry sweety, one of my friends just found out that she is pregnant too and the father thought he was sterile -- Posted by Anonymous at 10:26 pm on Dec. 27, 2008 It's my birthday today, I just turned 20. And the bride wants us to dance together as some kind of thing. -- Posted by Fuberd at 10:30 pm on Dec. 27, 2008 Im here if you wanna talk. same thing happend to my best mate -- Posted by Monroe at 10:32 pm on Dec. 27, 2008 Quote: from Anonymous at 10:26 pm on Dec. 27, 2008 It's my birthday today, I just turned 20. And the bride wants us to dance together as some kind of thing. If you're the maid of honor, you're obviously close to her, and if you don't want to dance with your ex, then tell her. Unless, you're using the excuse of "you have too", because you WANT too. -- Posted by Leelyy at 10:33 pm on Dec. 27, 2008 At least you weren't put out the house. Some parents start out this way, but then they turn to supporting their kids. Pray for the best! :) -- Posted by Anonymous at 10:35 pm on Dec. 27, 2008 I told her I preferred not to, because my boyfriend is also going to be there and the dude is annoying, that's why he's my ex. But she said, "It's my wedding and I want it my way, it's only a few minute song and dance, I don't see the huge problem." -- Posted by Monroe at 10:38 pm on Dec. 27, 2008 Quote: from Anonymous at 10:35 pm on Dec. 27, 2008 I told her I preferred not to, because my boyfriend is also going to be there and the dude is annoying, that's why he's my ex. But she said, "It's my wedding and I want it my way, it's only a few minute song and dance, I don't see the huge problem." Then I'd not be her maid of honor, dear. -- Posted by fullmooncurse at 10:58 pm on Dec. 27, 2008 Are you aganist abortion? -- Posted by Chiefette at 8:00 am on Dec. 28, 2008 You are plenty old enough to deal with this, and tell your mother and grandmother to bite your ass.  As far as the wedding, I would tell her it may be her wedding, but you don't want to dance with your ex.  If she is going to try to make you, you won't be part of her wedding.  When I got married, it was still my day, but I was happy, because everyone else was happy and no one had to do anything they did not want to.