-- Posted by Jmoney4life at 7:23 pm on Dec. 30, 2008 I just got into a relationship with this girl (very cute) she is very sweet..  For Christmas break I spent my whole week in the hospital because i had a really bad case of pnemonia in my right lung that spreaded to my liver.  horrible time especially during christmas to spend it..  Now when i get out, i see my gf, and i don't really feel that much of a connection for her, and i still really love my ex.  She got me the worlds best present (Redskins Fleese   oh Lord:)  )  but i don't know what to do cus i have kinda led her on when i saw her today that I still like her...    What should i do?? -- Posted by Rachel21 at 7:25 pm on Dec. 30, 2008 Ah that's tuff, but don't ever settle for someone who's not 'the one', it's a waste of your life. -- Posted by ivy1994 at 7:26 pm on Dec. 30, 2008 Hmmmm...thats a hard question -- Posted by agerask at 7:26 pm on Dec. 30, 2008 tell it to her straight, and give her the present back. it is so much worse finding out that you've been led on than it is when the other person tells you immediately.