-- Posted by emmox at 3:13 am on Jan. 1, 2009 i have a boyfriend.Hes my first PROPER boyfriend. We've been going out for 3 months and I'm starting to get really weird about stuff. There's lots of things so..... 1.We both have Bebo and i feel jealous of his ex, whose really pretty. 2.i think his best friend is pretty fit. 3. we haven't snogged. Is it normal to be jealous of his ex, slightly attracted to his best mate and nervous about kissing him? -- Posted by sadnessness at 3:15 am on Jan. 1, 2009 Do you actually like this guy, or were you flattered that he asked and wanted to say "i have a bf" ? Nervous about kissing is normal, attraction to friend is a little odd -- Posted by kitts at 3:15 am on Jan. 1, 2009 Quote: from sadnessness at 6:15 am on Jan. 1, 2009 Do you actually like this guy, or were you flattered that he asked and wanted to say "i have a bf" ? Nervous about kissing is normal, attraction to friend is a little odd this -- Posted by emmox at 3:16 am on Jan. 1, 2009 i do like him. -- Posted by wbafan2 at 3:16 am on Jan. 1, 2009 If all things his ex should be jealous of YOU. Not the other way around. -- Posted by BodomChick at 3:18 am on Jan. 1, 2009 oh yes, i was the same, i was terrified of kissing my first bf, it took ages, i mean i backed away from him so many times. but when it happened, it was great, trust me it'll be okay :) -- Posted by stuntj at 7:30 am on Jan. 1, 2009 It's totally normal to be jealous, it's human nature. But  we all believe there's nothing the brain can fail to control. Even jealousy falls under that category. Look at what you have that she doesn't have, for instance you must be more pretty than her for your boyfriend to fall for you, not just physically but by heart too. But there's one decision that's entirely yours, whether you love the boy or not, if you love him you'd be honest with him and tell him how you feel about him and his friend. The best power you have over a boyfriend is to be honest.   -- Posted by stuntj at 3:22 am on Jan. 3, 2009 You are welcome -- Posted by lucky015 at 11:13 am on Jan. 3, 2009 Just kiss him =) -- Posted by emmox at 9:00 am on Jan. 7, 2009 he dumped me. im glad cos i didnt really fancy him, but i still feel like bursting in to tears. whats going on?