-- Posted by wishbone123 at 1:11 am on Jan. 2, 2009 I've never tried alcohol, which isn't really normal for an 18 year old. My boyfriend has drinks with his friends on the weekends and it makes me upset because I want him to be like me and not drink. I caught him drinking the other day and we are broken up now. So I'm sitting here thinking "Fuck this, maybe I should just get wasted, get it over with, and see what he thinks about THAT" -- Posted by justin1990rm at 1:12 am on Jan. 2, 2009 go ahead -- Posted by Stellar at 1:12 am on Jan. 2, 2009 Stick to your guns. -- Posted by Total Destruction at 1:13 am on Jan. 2, 2009 Go ahead and try it! -- Posted by snowfish at 1:13 am on Jan. 2, 2009 that's a really retarded idea, coming from someone who drinks every day. Go ahead and try alcohol, but do it on your own time in moderation. -- Posted by beachgirl101 at 1:13 am on Jan. 2, 2009 Chances are, he's not worth it. If he's trash, that doesn't mean you need to be trash too. -- Posted by blufindr at 1:13 am on Jan. 2, 2009 Don't get wasted. It's not good for you. -- Posted by steve123411 at 1:13 am on Jan. 2, 2009 So you're pretty much saying that you're a controlling bitch? The guy gets together with his buddies and has a couple beer seems pretty normal to me? Unless there is more to the story and he is always out of control wasted. -- Posted by Neodymie at 1:14 am on Jan. 2, 2009 There's nothing wrong with drinking. That's a stupid reason to dump someone. Just drink in moderation. -- Posted by Sector Corrupt at 1:14 am on Jan. 2, 2009 I think both stances are a bit off. On the one hand, Drinking is bad if he's doing it too often and too much. On the other hand, it's unfair to completely expect him to go without. a happy moderate is a much better solution. If you're really uncomfortable with it though, explain it to him why you're uncomfortable and maybe he can give you some reassurance. If you'll never be comfortable with it, and he's willing to give it up for you that's fine, but realize that it might be too large a sacrifice and finding someone who shares the same values might be better for you. -- Posted by wishbone123 at 1:15 am on Jan. 2, 2009 Quote: from steve123411 at 1:13 am on Jan. 2, 2009 So you're pretty much saying that you're a controlling bitch? The guy gets together with his buddies and has a couple beer seems pretty normal to me? Unless there is more to the story and he is always out of control wasted. Haha, maybe I am a controlling bitch. But, he's not legal drinking age yet anyway :p -- Posted by ariadne at 1:15 am on Jan. 2, 2009 fuckk yea get wastedd! -- Posted by HeavenShallBurn at 1:16 am on Jan. 2, 2009 He is drinking... it aint like he is popin Oxy, smokin crack, snortin coke and shootin up Heroin. SO deal with it, god, and have a drink, THEY ARE GREAT -- Posted by Neodymie at 1:17 am on Jan. 2, 2009  But, he's not legal drinking age yet anyway :p Wow. You guys are 18. Close enough. -- Posted by steve123411 at 1:18 am on Jan. 2, 2009 Quote: from wishbone123 at 1:15 am on Jan. 2, 2009 Quote: from steve123411 at 1:13 am on Jan. 2, 2009 So you're pretty much saying that you're a controlling bitch? The guy gets together with his buddies and has a couple beer seems pretty normal to me? Unless there is more to the story and he is always out of control wasted. Haha, maybe I am a controlling bitch. But, he's not legal drinking age yet anyway :p So you're a controlling bitch and a bible thumper. Sound like a real catch. -- Posted by My Dreams WILL Wait at 1:19 am on Jan. 2, 2009 Don't. You know what you are "you don't drink for a good reason. " You care and you know that alcohol is not good for you. Don't do it just to be like others "careless"..That's no excuse...I say confront them..stick to who you really are.. -- Posted by Xusk at 7:58 am on Jan. 2, 2009 I'd say you have alot of maturing to do and drugs in general is the last thing you need to be doing. Kids these days... -- Posted by yourbrainonsaget at 10:57 am on Jan. 2, 2009 well i guess if you can't accept him for who he is then its a good thing your broken up.   On another note, you can't expect anybody to "be like you."   Its just ludicris.  You should only drink if you want to for the experience, but it sounds like its just a plan of revenge to  me.