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-- Posted by Vicodin at 1:34 pm on Jan. 2, 2009 Yes, I do drugs. I smoke weed, I take pills, I love alcohol. My boyfriend does everything he can get his hands on, which I'm basically fine with. Until he decided he wanted to do Triple C's and Duster constantly. I get trying drugs. I really do. Just not shit that's going to kill your ass. I can't fucking get him to understand. He knows I take pills and kind of worries about me, but I can handle myself. I don't go over my limits and I don't take more than 30-40mgs of lortabs. That's it. I get that he's worried about me, but I'm not going to fucking kill myself. He does Duster which can fucking kill you the first time you use and it only gets worse as you continue. He fucking knows this shit, and it goes the same with Triple C's. I just can't fucking get it into his head that he needs to fucking quit. I'm fine with basically every other drug outside of pretty heavy shit. How in the fuck do I get him to stop doing Duster and Triple C's? I've told him what they do and he's still fucking stupid.
-- Posted by LucidAssassin at 1:35 pm on Jan. 2, 2009
....duster? ....triple c's?
-- Posted by WickedWiccan at 1:36 pm on Jan. 2, 2009 Quote: from LucidAssassin at 5:35 pm on Jan. 2, 2009 Me too.
-- Posted by Monroe at 1:37 pm on Jan. 2, 2009 Maybe you should both just stop?
-- Posted by ManiacPenguins at 1:37 pm on Jan. 2, 2009 Uh, triple c is cough medicine.
-- Posted by StereoRock9 at 1:37 pm on Jan. 2, 2009 that sucks
-- Posted by Vicodin at 1:37 pm on Jan. 2, 2009 http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=air duster http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=triple+c%27s
-- Posted by taraxgoesxboom at 1:38 pm on Jan. 2, 2009 All you can do is lead by example and hope he changes. Since you seem to really enjoy drugs I'm sure it would be hard, but if you quit completely and he sees how serious you are about it he might stop too. I understand what you're saying about the varying degrees of the drugs, but if he's worried about you and you're still ignoring his concers, why should he worry about yours? Try stopping, show him you're really worried and the you care he's worried about you. Aside from that there isn't really anything you can do.
-- Posted by zamrambo at 1:39 pm on Jan. 2, 2009 Triple C's won't do that much unless you take an f-load. And why do';t you both just quit, it's doing nothing good for either of you, that's obvious.
-- Posted by adriannaa at 1:39 pm on Jan. 2, 2009 Damn, now I must experiment.
-- Posted by Cheeserock at 1:39 pm on Jan. 2, 2009 Quote: from LucidAssassin at 9:35 pm on Jan. 2, 2009
urban dictionary
-- Posted by LucidAssassin at 1:40 pm on Jan. 2, 2009 Quote: from Kates04 at 1:37 pm on Jan. 2, 2009
i see...ok inhalants smell gross so i dont understand how people can stand doing it a lot, and why would you take cough medicine to get high or drunk? its gross
-- Posted by adriannaa at 1:40 pm on Jan. 2, 2009 Quote: from LucidAssassin at 1:40 pm on Jan. 2, 2009
It smells good...
-- Posted by Googoie at 1:40 pm on Jan. 2, 2009 Quote: from crimeinstereo at 4:37 pm on Jan. 2, 2009 My thoughts exactly.
-- Posted by Vicodin at 1:41 pm on Jan. 2, 2009 I'M NOT QUITTING. I don't want him to quit either. Fuck that shit. I just don't want him to die.
-- Posted by Skip at 1:41 pm on Jan. 2, 2009 show him all the things on the internet that clearly state these things can kill him
-- Posted by jsgirl at 1:41 pm on Jan. 2, 2009
UGH DUSTER? You have to let him know that doing that shit is not ok, and you need to start setting an example for him.
-- Posted by greatescape at 1:41 pm on Jan. 2, 2009 I don't think that's being hypocritical. Worrying about your boyfriend because he's using drugs that are EXTREMELY risky is a valid concern. Some drugs are a lot more dangerous than others; it's just how it is. As far as getting him to stop, I think the best thing you can do is try to make him understand that he's not only putting himself in danger with that stuff. He's really making you worry about him. If he understand the implications of doing Duster, I have noooooo clue why he would want to keep doing that. I mean, that's really one of the stupidest 'drugs' to abuse. Maybe get some of his friends to talk to him about it at well? Anything to make him see that there are a lot of people really concerned about his drug use.
-- Posted by LucidAssassin at 1:44 pm on Jan. 2, 2009 Quote: from adriannaa at 1:40 pm on Jan. 2, 2009
its disgusting i cant stand the smell of sharpis
-- Posted by HuffleHaire at 1:44 pm on Jan. 2, 2009 It's a hard fact to get through. People won't hear what they don't want to hear. You could always give him an ultimatum, but that often bites you in the ass.. The best you can do is tell him how you feel, about how you're insanely worried, and be there for him if he falls.
-- Posted by Rocket boy at 1:45 pm on Jan. 2, 2009 It would be best if you both try to atleast stop and do other things. Maybe that will get him and you to stop?
-- Posted by Vicodin at 1:46 pm on Jan. 2, 2009 Quote: from greatescape11 at 2:41 pm on Jan. 2, 2009
He understands the implications of doing Duster. He actually sat and explained it to me after I screamed at him for it. Then last night he went out and did it again, then texted me saying how shitty he felt. His friends aren't going to help. They do Duster too, and sometimes Triple C's along with him. They don't do it as frequently, but they still don't really know any real facts about drugs. I'm the one that keeps these kids from overdosing most of the time. I think everyone else that has replied doesn't really get this. I have no desire to quit, and I have no desire for him to quit. We both love drugs and we love doing drugs together. I'm just really scared of him using stupid drugs. The ones that are going to kill him. I guess I just need to keep saying that and if he doesn't listen I really can't live with that.
-- Posted by adriannaa at 1:47 pm on Jan. 2, 2009 Quote: from LucidAssassin at 1:44 pm on Jan. 2, 2009
-- Posted by xobeautifulgirlox at 1:49 pm on Jan. 2, 2009 Okay, you said you do other drugs, and you love alcohol. People can easily die from hard drugs, and from alcohol poisoning. It may not be as fast, but you will die from drugs if continually used. I don't know what a Duster is. But all I can say is, instead of you both doing drugs together, and getting into dangerous situations, maybe use your love and power to quit drugs all together?
-- Posted by LucidAssassin at 1:50 pm on Jan. 2, 2009 Quote: from adriannaa at 1:47 pm on Jan. 2, 2009
.....sarcasm?
-- Posted by Monroe at 1:53 pm on Jan. 2, 2009 Quote: from LucidAssassin at 1:40 pm on Jan. 2, 2009
You don't smell it, you inhale it. For the record, never do air duster. It can kill you, in a heartbeat.
-- Posted by Monroe at 1:54 pm on Jan. 2, 2009 Quote: from Kates04 at 1:41 pm on Jan. 2, 2009
Haha, okay. Well, you both keep doing drugs. And when one of you dies, maybe the other will develop some sense.
-- Posted by snowfish at 1:55 pm on Jan. 2, 2009 tell him to get his ass out of middle school and do some real drugs. Honestly, dusters and triple c's are for people who don't just get ahold of actual illegal drugs, and it's sad because the legit ones won't kill you as quickly as huffing shit.
-- Posted by greatescape at 1:55 pm on Jan. 2, 2009 Quote: from Kates04 at 3:46 pm on Jan. 2, 2009
I understand you don't want to quit. I'm not trying to tell you too. I guess I'm just totally baffled as to why someone would want to use Duster when they very well know what it can do to you. I mean, I'm pretty liberal when it comes to drug use. I'd try (or at least bask before cleaning up a bit) just about anything....but shit like Duster has always been on my NO list. I wish I could make him listen to you...but I mean if he isn't willing to, you can't force him. Do you think it could be one of those things where he's doing it to kind of prove something? Like that he still has some independence or something? That might be kind of out-there. Just something that came to mind. I guess what I would probably do in this situation is set an ultimatum. Tell him to choose between doing that shit or having you. I know that's pretty tough to do, and maybe it's not what you want to do. But I know I wouldn't be able to date someone knowing that they're playing Russian Roulette with drugs all the time.
-- Posted by Vicodin at 2:01 pm on Jan. 2, 2009 I'm gonna try to talk to him again. I mean, I'm not trying to be a hardass about it. I just want him to lay off certain "drugs". I'm fine with opiates, weed, alcohol, etc. Just not shit like Duster. If that doesn't work I'll set an ultimatum or just end it all together until he gets some fucking sense. |
im so uneducated
....duster? ....triple c's? 
