-- Posted by Anonymous at 6:23 pm on Jan. 2, 2009 I'll admit that I am a teen cutter, I have been for more then yrs. I recently continued it  this year after a year break, why i have no fucking clue. Today I went and visited my boyfriend, He knows I haven't been sleeping well, so we watched a movie and of course, I fall asleep WITHOUT MY HUDDY!!! He then discovered my cuts on my arms right above my crook in my left arm and asked if I wanted to commit suicide. I tried to change the subject but he kept asking and asking more and more questions until I finally said enough and let him look at them more closely so he could make sure they were ok. Now he says he is worried about me, and that he wants me to tell him each time i cut, to let him see the cut and for me to have a "logical" reason why i did so. He said if I do not do this then he will tell my mom and grandparents so I can get "help" PROBLEM IS I ALREADY HAVE HELP!!! I don't want help, i don't need it, I am fine, but he doesn't think so. So I get my stress, emotions and anger out in a different way, whats the matter with that? I need to stop, at least until he simmers down and forgets all of this. Any ideas? -- Posted by sdkarr at 6:24 pm on Jan. 2, 2009 when my bf found out, he flipped. I MEAN FLIPPED!! and i'm so glad he did. because he got me to stop!   just get help. trust me -- Posted by ElizabethCox at 6:24 pm on Jan. 2, 2009 You say your fine. If you don't want or need help, then who can help you? -- Posted by Anonymous at 6:27 pm on Jan. 2, 2009 What I mean by help, is a therapist. I'm not really asking for help, but for advice, I need my bf off my back and I need to stop...for now. -- Posted by lestat1990 at 6:28 pm on Jan. 2, 2009 tell him you know he cares but thats about all he can do. this is somthing you have to solve because you all ready have everything you need to stop you just need to do it. and when you have a relapse just tell him rome wasn't built in a day and that you're working on it and you love him and you promise not to kill urself -- Posted by xxpsychoxx285xx at 6:30 pm on Jan. 2, 2009 well, obviously try to stop. it's so much easier said then done... maybe try writing about why you want to cut every time the urge arises. or if your boyfriend wants to help you...call him and talk to him every time you want to cut. you don't necessarily have to tell him why you're calling but at least it may serve as a distraction. -- Posted by tinarh1 at 6:31 pm on Jan. 2, 2009 then just dont cut...he is flipping bc he cares....dont cut period again, talk to someone when u are feeling down in the dumps, cutting wont solve the problom, but talking 2 ppl about your probloms will -- Posted by Elisee at 6:44 pm on Jan. 2, 2009 I think you should stop.. There are far better ways to get your emotions out then cutting your self believe me. Your boyfriends right you need help. -- Posted by DADDYS LITTLE GIRL at 7:42 pm on Jan. 2, 2009 He's only concerned because he cares about you and its no suprised he flipped out about it, instead of cutting when you feel down you should talk to him let him know whats going on.